A man calls late at night? What does he want to express?

Maybe when you are in trouble, when you are bored, when you need help, when you want to find someone to talk to, you haven't opened your mouth yet, or you are embarrassed to open your mouth, or you are about to open your mouth. At that time, he suddenly called you, and you felt that you were so coincidental, so in tune with each other, and so tacitly connected. Of course, a call from a man at this time is welcome.

However, many times, men cannot do these things according to your wishes, or in other words, men cannot guess what you are thinking, so many phone calls you make may not be what you most expect.

There is another type of phone call that many girls do not welcome, such as harassing calls late at night.

Phone calls after 11pm

I don’t know if you have noticed that at night, the voices of the late-night radio hosts become enchanting; and the late-night talk shows on the radio, whether they are about love or sex, always have a lot of callers, especially lonely people.

Even a friend of mine who hosts an evening romance show on the radio told me that many men would specifically look for her to chat with them.

Night is the time when desires come out to vent, so phone calls at night generally carry a sense of loneliness.

Some of my friends are like this too, they like to call girls at night. I am busy with work during the day and have no time or habit, because there is no need to think about women during the day, unless you are in love and have developed feelings for a lady that you want to see her every minute of every day.

After 11pm, all calls from men are about sex.

Some of them are night owls, and they specifically choose to play with people when they are about to go to bed, and even ask them out.

This scene can be fully described by the title of Cao Naiqian's book "I Can't Help Missing You Until Dark". Cao Naiqian's book is all about the unconscious sexual impulses of lower-class men, which are often based on animal instincts.

However, no matter what level or class men are at, their feelings and motivations for women are the same.

Generally speaking, men's calls after 11 o'clock in the evening are all related to sex: either they are really lonely and bored and need a window or someone to chat with to pass the boring single life, or they just want to call you out, and then, the next step should be to lead you to bed.

If a woman accepts a man's invitation late at night and goes to a bar, dance hall, coffee shop, or food stall with the man to eat, drink, and sing Karaoke, she actually knows what the man is thinking.

It’s just that if you’re just having fun, there’s nothing wrong with that. But if you want to find a boyfriend, if you want to find someone you really want to live with, then you should find someone who can call you during the day.

If you think this requirement is too demanding, you can take a step back and consider men who call before 11pm;

Most men who call you after 11 o'clock are after your body. Such a person may be more suitable to be a lover rather than a husband.