Ximen Qing's secret to making Pan Jinlian fall in love with him

Many men dream of having Ximen Qing's "good fortune". Not only does he have many women, but some women also seem to be waiting for him to have them. From this point of view, Ximen Qing should have been a man who was very popular with women at that time. And Ximen Qing's women were not all after money.

According to the time calculation in "Water Margin", Song Huizong, who was a contemporary of his, was an emperor. Not to mention money, he had enormous power. However, his beloved woman Li Shishi ran away with the prodigal son Yan Qing.

You might say that Li Shishi is an outlier among women, but isn't Pan Jinlian an outlier? If she loved money, she would have become the concubine of Mr. Zhang long ago. There is also Li Ping'er. Her husband is Ximen Qing's business partner and she is well-off, but she refuses to be the first wife and insists on being Ximen Qing's concubine. It can be seen that Ximen Qing wants more than just money, and women are not all so realistic. Money and wisdom bring Ximen Qing confidence and power, and his skills in treating women and his appearance are enough to make women addicted and confused.

Four periods of high incidence of romantic encounters

Nine out of ten men are playboys. As far as men's nature is concerned, they tend to identify with money, power, and sex. The only difference is a matter of opportunity and courage. "Nine out of ten men are promiscuous." Being promiscuous does not necessarily mean putting it into action. After all, there are not many people who are promiscuous by nature, but this is the era we are facing after all.

Ximen Qing, a man with high sexual quotient

At this point we need to quote the term "sexual quotient", which has been frequently discussed recently and is becoming increasingly popular. Ximen Qing is probably the most typical Chinese man with a relatively high sexual quotient index from ancient times to the present. The so-called "sexual quotient" refers to a comprehensive standard based on physiology that people use to pursue sexual pleasure. It is not only a medical aspect, but should be a comprehensive indicator based on physiology, including psychology, culture, and social environment. Specifically, it can include three dimensions, namely sexual desire quotient, sexual function quotient and sexual common sense quotient.

The mystery of Chinese men's sexual psychology is revealed. People often complain that men are unfaithful, especially in front of beautiful women. In fact, there are differences between men and women, and there are also great differences in their sexual psychological habits. According to research and analysis, the sexual psychological habits of young men in my country mainly include the following points.

"Sexual quotient" is not only a purely physiological indicator, but also includes many aspects such as sexual health level, sexual physiological ability, sexual psychological adjustment and sexual interaction ability. For men, it includes their own abilities such as sexual desire, erectile function, and endurance, the ability to help their spouses achieve sexual pleasure, and the ability to use knowledge to self-adjust.

Ximen Qing's "sexual quotient" philosophy is to pursue sexual satisfaction, physical pleasure, and sensual pleasure as its fundamental goal, and to build the happiness of life on the basis of real life. What is more important is that this pursuit of carnal desire is absolutely undivided. Many people appear to be extremely noble when interacting with the opposite sex, as if they are having sex for love, and they always have to find a suitable reason for their carnal desire. In fact, love with carnal purpose is impossible to produce spiritual love for each other. Having intercourse with the opposite sex with distracting thoughts will not allow one to enjoy complete sexual pleasure. This practice, to a certain extent, is treating oneself as an object to be sold, and the end result is the alienation of human nature and the distortion of personality. Ximen Qing's behavior may not seem noble enough, but it can bring real happiness to women.

Finding a reason to continue to be in love with a philandering man is a seemingly clichéd beginning of a tragic story. She falls in love with a philandering handsome man and loves him without hesitation.

As for the means, Ximen Qing’s best skill is probably to please women and praise their appearance, which are the words women like to hear the most, and he uses this to get close to women. After getting familiar with each other, sexually harass the woman at the right time so that she will feel embarrassed to refuse him directly. Once a woman's sexual desire is awakened, they can naturally begin to enjoy sexual pleasure. It seems that he is more willing to spend time and effort on women, rather than simply engaging in vulgar and simple transactions of money for sex.

Ximen Qing's Woman Pan Jinlian

Pan Jinlian, who lived in the feudal era, had this view of Ximen Qing: "Because as a woman, I can get a lot from you that I can't get from other men: your strength and tenderness, your passion and persistence; you have brought me so much joy, singing and talking, making love, and all the ultimate happiness that can be felt in the world. How I wish to be with you forever, in harmony, in love, working together, and passing on the family line." In this case, how could Pan Jinlian not abandon Wu Dalang and seek Brother Ximen Qing!

Women cheating on their spouse

This word used to sound a bit harsh, but now no matter who talks about this topic, it seems very natural, as simple as dressing and eating. Although there is still some mystery when talking about people and things related to affairs, no matter who has an affair, it seems to be the most natural thing. I don't know whether it is society that is changing or people who are changing.

In order to pursue a life of pleasure, under the influence of temptation, coercion and subconscious psychological control, she had no choice but to resort to the despicable strategy of murdering her husband. This can only be her misfortune. Isn't what she pursues the freedom, love, sex and a better life that modern people pursue? The love in her heart has been awakened, but she cannot use legal means to escape from her unhappy marriage. If Wu Da could understand that he is not suitable to be the male protagonist of her love story, the ending might not be so tragic.

A woman's love is like a Hollywood script, and men are just actors. Therefore, men should seriously consider whether they are suitable for this role. If she chooses the wrong leading role, it is better for a man to let her know as soon as possible that you are not suitable for the role, or try not to let her find out that you are not suitable for the role. The biggest mistake men often make is to arrogantly think that you are the person in her script.

In comparison, modern women are much happier. They have more choices, can divorce if they are not satisfied, and can leave an unhappy marriage more easily.