This kind of man always thinks about other people's wives

There is no gender distinction when it comes to cheating, and the third party can of course be either male or female. Some people say that men cheat for sex and women cheat for love, so what is the difference between a female mistress and a male mistress? A female mistress usually wants money and people when she interferes with other people's marriages, but what is the male mistress thinking? Let's take a look at the three mentalities of men when they become mistresses.

He likes mature women and likes to be pampered

The more married a woman is, the more attractive she is - this is the mentality of the little men who specialize in hunting mature women. She looked particularly maternal, with that kind of considerate and gentle beauty that was like a magnet that attracted young men in their early twenties. But, it is a bit frustrating for a man to be a mistress.

A man should be upright and self-reliant. How can he be a slave to others and live off them? However, this concept has become increasingly diluted among the new generation. Compared with the married and heartless men that female mistresses face, male mistresses often face affectionate and resentful women.

He doesn't like the constraints of marriage.

The difference between them and female mistresses is that they do not aim to get married. On the contrary, they do not like the comfort of marriage. Moreover, they don’t care that they must be together day and night just because they are in love. Mature women can satisfy their emotional needs without requiring them to bear the responsibilities and obligations of marriage. They even provide various material compensations and conveniences. Compared with this, a marriage contract is simply an unnecessary burden.

A female mistress is willing to stay with a man who has left the house with nothing, but a male mistress cannot rely on love alone. Therefore, most women who have extramarital affairs have a miserable ending, because when they give up everything for love, the male mistress has already fled. Women are born with a love problem, just like the heroine in "Wild Rose of Paris", who devotes herself to love without hesitation. But in the end, she was left standing alone in the wind, with nothing but a pile of ashes after the burning passion.

He wants to be a gigolo who gets something for nothing

Now is her century, women are becoming more and more successful, and with men by women's side, what is impossible? I know a model and a famous female producer. The other party helped him get performance opportunities in the circle and also provided him with living expenses. The female producer has been married for many years. Her husband is a famous lyricist, so divorce is naturally too costly. The male model regarded himself as the producer's little husband. He would serve tea and water during gatherings and even sit on the producer's lap when playing mahjong. Being with a mature and successful woman can save them at least ten years of hard work, so why not do it?

Postscript: In fact, no matter if there is a female mistress in a marriage or a woman finds a male lover, it is almost always the woman who gets hurt in the end. Why? Women can never see through the word "love" and are always deeply trapped in it, either for this man or for another man.