When a man becomes a "bedcloth", will you still laugh?

In less than 20 years, the relationship between men and women has undergone tremendous changes, just like the body positions, from "harming" to "sleeping", from "sleeping" to "doing it", and finally women "sleeping with men", showing an inverted and diversified trend.

When a man becomes the woman's bedding, sexual relations occur between the man and the woman. In the end, it is difficult to tell who is the winner as both sides have their own opinions on whether it is the man who slept with the woman or the woman who slept with the man. However, the opinions of people around them still influence people's thoughts. You might as well imagine a scenario like this: a handsome man and a beautiful woman spent a night together. The next day, the man boasted to his buddies: "I slept with a beautiful woman yesterday. She has a thin waist and long legs." The people around him were drooling. At the same time, the beautiful woman also announced to her sister group: "I slept with another handsome man yesterday. I made him surrender in just a few minutes." Some people in the audience showed contempt. It's the same thing, the same publicity, and the audience's attitude determines the degree of sense of accomplishment.

Women are naturally at a disadvantage in sex because they have no protrusions on their bodies and they do not have the external organs to invade the opposite sex's body. They have been on the passive side for thousands of years. Now they are shouting the slogan "We are all sleeping with men", which is a psychological revenge and rape on men. The root cause is that they once expected an emotional destination but did not get it, so they embarked on the path of revenge on men, thinking that they are using their own method to get what they want.

Ah Q, a famous expert on the "spiritual victory method", said this: "You hit me? That's like my son hitting me!" Everyone knows that when someone hits someone in the face with their hand, it is the face that gets hurt. The face is the recipient of the attack, not the initiator of the attack. If you insist on saying that your face hit someone else's hand, and really think that someone stepping on you is the same as you hitting someone else's foot, then that is undoubtedly ignorant and self-deceptive. When the hand and face collide, is it the hand that hits the face, or the face that hits the hand? Between a man and a woman, who "gets" who first? The answer is obvious.

I think the way biologists distinguish between male and female, male and female, and men and women has already destined the emergence of such a psychological state. When we see a new higher animal, we must judge its gender. Generally speaking, the one that bears offspring in the belly is called female, and the one with protruding external genitals is called male. Even plugs and sockets are divided into male and female. The one with electrodes for insertion is called "male", and the opposite is called "female".

Women are easily hurt psychologically, are at a disadvantage in terms of physical position, and are also at a disadvantage in terms of social status. Now we don’t even allow them to use the method of spiritual victory, which is really inhumane! So when I heard an 18-year-old girl say that she started playing with men at the age of 15, I didn't say anything. When "Mu Zimei" claimed that she had had more than 60 men and wanted to scare everyone, I still didn't say anything. When women try to stimulate men with words and spirit, the effect is no different from "hitting the hand with the face."

Every woman who shouts the slogan "sleep with men" must have deep scars in her heart, because she has always been carrying a sense of humiliation that she is a woman but has been "slept with" by a man, and a sense of frustration that she has been abandoned by a man. This is revenge, and they desperately tell themselves that they are as qualified as men to abandon and sleep with each other, implying that they have won, but in fact they are losing more and more. If you get beaten, you get beaten. After being slapped, you want to turn your face into iron so that you no longer feel pain. This will only lead to the following result: although there are no hands to beat you, there will never be hands to touch you again; although you will not feel pain, there will never be a mouth to kiss you again.

The worst thing to do is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others. When playing with women's bodies and emotions is called "going on", "doing", "doing" and "playing", these are in themselves immoral things and are wrong. Women treat the whole society in this wrong way and try to "punish" those who hurt you. In the end, who is hurt? Every injustice has its perpetrator, every debt has its creditor. When you cannot punish the person you hate, you can only hurt yourself and innocent people. Who is the one who suffers in the end? Let me give you a very simple example. The cold virus has existed since ancient times. When someone infects you with a cold, maybe you hate it, maybe you are afraid, maybe you cry bitterly. But instead of actively seeking treatment, you resort to revenge. You also infect others and retaliate against others. Will your illness be cured? Can you expect that one day you will be able to infect the person who infected you with the disease back?

Let’s take another simple example. An internet user sends you a virus URL. You are infected, but from then on you no longer trust any address sent to you by anyone, even if it is a Mid-Autumn Festival greeting or a birthday card. Who is suffering the loss? Or it's you who have lost your happiness, you have lost trust, you have lost friends, and you have lost the joy of surfing the Internet. Just like that, your loved ones are sad, your enemies are happy, and the virus makers are proud of their victory. When will this cycle of revenge end?

We should think deeply about whether this kind of "sleeping" between men and women is a state, a result, or a behavior? If it is just a one-sided satisfaction, without any emotional factors involved, it is indeed a low-level, low-quality, beast-level venting, not much different from burping, farting, and shitting. If you treat women as toilets, you will become excrement. If you use men as sex toys, you will be no different from an inflatable doll. Sex without soul and love is a sense of accomplishment. Men should not think that they are raping the entire earth by just lying on the ground. Here, women should also be reminded not to think that you have taken revenge on all men in the world by changing the position of woman on top and man on bottom, wearing pants that open in the front, and using a toilet where you urinate while standing.