A series of psychological changes after a man chases a woman

Some women will complain about their boyfriends like this. Before they start dating or living together, their boyfriends always act very attentive and can cook and clean. But after being with him for a while, you will find that he is not as hygienic as you thought. You need to nag him constantly and then start to wonder if he has changed. Yes, he has changed. It’s not that his feelings towards you have changed, but a man’s mentality will undergo a series of changes after he gets the woman he loves.

The first mentality

The mentality of a man after he has a woman, everyone is greedy, hoping that before he has a woman, everything is in order; after a man has a woman, everything is messed up, not because the man has become lazy, but because the man likes to watch the woman tidying up for him while nagging about his own slovenliness, and the man thinks this is a kind of happiness;

The second mentality

Before a man has a woman, he will endure his illness and only go to the doctor when he is really sick; after a man has a woman, he will tell his woman about the slightest illness. It is not because men have become delicate, but because men like to see the woman worrying about him and the anxious look on her face. Men think this is a kind of happiness.

The third mentality

Before a man has a woman, he doesn't need anyone to accompany him when he eats; after a man has a woman, even if the woman is not hungry, the man still wants her to sit opposite him and watch him wolfing down his food like a child. The man feels this is a kind of happiness; the so-called "beauty is a feast to the eyes" refers to this kind of feeling. Men like women to watch them eat.

The fourth mentality

Before a man has a woman, he always goes home alone after get off work. After a man has a woman, if he occasionally doesn't see his woman after get off work, he feels lonely and has nothing to do. In fact, men are often more afraid of loneliness than women. Under social pressure, they are born with a sense of loneliness and need the company of women.

The fifth mindset

Before a man has a woman, he always says, "To love someone is to love their shortcomings." After a man has a woman, he must prove this statement with actual actions.

The Sixth Mindset

Before a man has a woman, he will never complain about being tired no matter how tired he is; after a man has a woman, he will say he is tired even if he is not tired. A man hopes that a woman will use her gentle hands to massage him, and he feels that this is a kind of happiness; a gentle touch can give a man tactile pleasure and contains the warmth of motherhood.

The Seventh Mindset

Before a man has a woman, he always thinks that the woman should do everything according to the man's wishes; after a man has a woman, he understands that women also have their own circles and their own lifestyles, and men cannot interfere.

The eighth mentality

Before a man has a woman, he always says "men don't shed tears easily"; after a man has a woman, he understands that it is because "it's because he hasn't reached the point of being sad yet"; don't think that men are strong, in fact, men are very fragile inside, with a little more care and concern, men hope to get more love after they have a woman.

Postscript: In fact, it is the same for girls. For example, girls who are usually carefree will become gentle or cuddly after having a beloved boyfriend.