Who decides the frequency of sexual intercourse between couples?

In China, matters between husband and wife are never put on the "table" for discussion. However, the things between husband and wife are of concern to everyone and are most helpful in maintaining health and the relationship between husband and wife.

How many times a week is normal for a couple to have AA, and how long is the most appropriate time for each time?

The ancients have discussed this issue a lot. For example, "Yi Xin Fang" summarized many experiences of the ancients and wrote: Those who are 20 years old can be given medicine twice a day, and those who are strong can be given medicine once a day; those who are 30 years old can be given medicine once a day, and those who are weak can be given medicine once every two days; those who are 40 years old and in good health can be given medicine once every three days, and those who are weak can be given medicine once every four days; those who are 50 years old and in good health can be given medicine once every five days, and those who are weak can be given medicine once every ten days; those who are 60 years old and in good health can be given medicine once every ten days, and those who are weak can be given medicine once every twenty days; those who are 70 years old and in good health can be given medicine once every thirty days, and those who are weak can not be given medicine.

The above shows that the frequency of sexual intercourse is closely related to age and physical condition. This cannot be generalized because of differences in physique, quality, age, nature of work and other factors. In addition, sexual desire can be strong or weak, so the frequency of sexual intercourse varies greatly among couples. Even for couples in the same family, there are often differences due to changes in the environment, work busyness, emotions and physical health. Therefore, it is unscientific to mechanically set a standard on how many times a week is appropriate for sexual intercourse.

However, there are standards to follow on this issue. Generally speaking, if the man or woman feels tired, mentally exhausted, light-headed, sore waist and weak legs, poor appetite, and lack of energy at work the day after sex, this is a sign of excessive sexual activity, and the frequency of sexual intercourse should be reduced appropriately. If the frequency of sexual intercourse is appropriate, you should not feel tired the day after intercourse. On the contrary, you should feel physically and mentally happy and have plenty of energy for work.

Young people aged 25 to 30, who have just married, can have more frequent sexual intercourse

Generally speaking, young people between 25 and 30 years old can have sexual intercourse more frequently shortly after marriage, but not more than four or five times a week; a few months after marriage, the frequency should be gradually reduced to once or twice a week; after the age of 45, it should generally be once a week. Indulgence is harmful to the body, as is clearly stated in ancient times.

If you indulge in excessive sexual activity, it will not only affect your work and study, but also your physical health. This is because the sexual center (including the erection center and the ejaculation center) is the same as other centers in the human body. If it is excited too frequently, it will fail over time, and sexual dysfunction such as premature ejaculation and inability to ejaculate will occur.

Some couples have one or both parties with strong sexual desire. If it is difficult to control the frequency of sexual intercourse, they should shift their attention and spare time to other activities. If there are more ways to exert and consume energy, then the demand for sex life will be weakened.

Generally, a couple's sexual needs are satisfied with one sexual intercourse a night, but some individuals may need two or more sexual intercourses a night to be satisfied. In some couples, the man ejaculates too quickly, so the woman's sexual desire cannot be satisfied, so they resort to repeated sexual intercourse to remedy the situation, because the second sexual intercourse often lasts longer. This method is effective, but it cannot be done frequently. Even if it is done occasionally, the principle should be that both parties do not feel tired the day after sexual intercourse. In fact, achieving sexual satisfaction does not necessarily require a long duration.

As for when sexual intercourse is best and most hygienic, this varies from person to person. If the man has a particularly heavy workload on that day and is physically and mentally exhausted, premature ejaculation will often occur if he has sex before going to bed. In this case, it is more appropriate to sleep first and then have sex after waking up. For the elderly, it is more appropriate to have sexual intercourse in the early morning. But generally speaking, it is better to have sexual intercourse before going to bed at night, because after sexual intercourse you still have a full night of sleep and rest, so that you can work energetically the next morning.