10 secrets hidden in men's hearts

Men will choose love in a very rational manner. Even if he loves someone emotionally, when he realizes that she is not a good wife, he will give up on her and find another one who is suitable for home life. Many women who are immersed in sweet love always urge their boyfriends to get married, but men always make excuses. This doesn’t mean that the man doesn’t love you, it’s just that he may think you are suitable to be a girlfriend but not a wife. There is too much distance between a girlfriend and a wife. Men believe that love and marriage are two different things, unlike women who hope to get married soon after falling in love. When a man finds out that you are not a suitable candidate for a wife, he will go looking for another candidate for a wife without hesitation.

2. The embodiment of big men and little men

Many women always make some requests when they are on a blind date, such as asking the other party not to be chauvinistic or stingy like a little man. In fact, a man is the embodiment of both a big man and a little man. As a male chauvinist, he hopes that the woman will completely accommodate him and make him feel at ease; as a female chauvinist, he is aware of his cowardly and incompetent side and is hesitant. To put it bluntly, many of them are jealous, petty, and as easily gullible as children. Everyone has two sides. In different occasions and in front of people with different relationships, he can play different roles and show different personalities.

3. He also has normal relationships with women

Many women always ask men not to interact with other opposite sex, or the less interaction the better, believing that men are always unable to resist the temptation of other opposite sex and are prone to having ambiguous affairs and cheating. In fact, men also have normal interactions with other women. Men hope that the women around them understand that taking the same woman to all places is really a boring thing, so he will be very reluctant when you ask him to take you to any occasion. When a man dates other women moderately, it is for fun and relaxation, and there is absolutely no other intention. Men and women can also be very good friends, but you must trust your man.

4. He cheated on you before

Cheating does not necessarily mean infidelity. In many cases, men have to tell women some white lies, which can serve as a spice of marriage. Men who have experience in love know that women cannot help but lie. Words like: "I will love you forever", "I will always love you like I do now", "Whenever you need me, just give me a call and I'll come right away", "I will never love another person the way I love you" are "lies" that must be said but can never be adhered to. Who makes women love to hear them so much! So don't ask him not to lie to you forever. Women like to hear lies and men love to say them. It's just a matter of willingness.

5. Never Far Away

Women like men to say to them "I will love you forever", but how long is this forever?

When men talk about the "future", they mean six months to one year, while women define it as 10 to 50 years. When a man falls in love with a woman, he only imagines how to develop intimacy with her in the short future; women, on the other hand, fantasize about falling in love, getting married, having children and even growing old together. Therefore, when a man says he loves you forever, he only means in the next six months to a year, not a lifetime as you imagine. Therefore, don’t blindly pursue the forever that men talk about. The forever they talk about is not far away.

6. Women are more likely to confess their secrets, while men are just the opposite.

When they encounter troubles, they will not tell their stories completely to their friends, and will always leave a little bit of face for themselves, or even say nothing at all, and bear it all by themselves. A woman hopes that she is everything and only to a man, that she is his only listener, and that she can hear all the thoughts in his heart. Men's confessions are packaged or deliberately chopped up so that no one person knows the whole story. This is also why it is difficult for women to understand men - they don't want to be fully understood. Men like to keep some things to themselves, he doesn't want you to bear too much!

7. Flirting is human nature. Extramarital affairs are the most serious killer of marriages.

Women hate mistresses and lovers, but men are always surrounded by lingering beauties. It’s not that other women are shameless, but being unfaithful is a man’s nature. Nine out of ten men are playboys, and only fools don't expect extramarital affairs. The red flag is flying at home and the colorful flags are fluttering outside, just like the emperor, having three palaces and six concubines is the pride of a man. Men are more realistic about extramarital affairs than women because they have more opportunities to be involved in extramarital affairs, and they know in their hearts that promiscuity is hidden in men's nature.

8. Like to attract the attention of the opposite sex. Same sex repels, opposite sex attracts.

Everyone wants to attract the attention and concern of the opposite sex, especially the one they like. When a man is in the presence of a woman he likes, he will behave as follows: talk a lot; appear smarter; be more generous than usual; change the subject to his proudest achievements; deliberately show his kindness, which is rare in normal times; and tell more jokes that he thinks are funny to make everyone laugh. Therefore, if you want to know whether a man has an ambiguous relationship with other opposite sexes, you can roughly know it by looking at his attitude in front of the opposite sex, without having to go to great lengths to track and reason.

9. There are also psychological lows. Women have psychological fluctuations every month due to physiological problems.

In fact, men also have a few days of psychological lows every month. Every once in a while, a man will have a few days when his emotions and physical strength are at their lowest. He doesn't want to see anyone, so he hides away and reads a book, listens to music, watches DVDs, or plays video games to vent. These may be due to work-related or physiological factors. As a woman, you cannot expect a man to agree with you in everything. It is especially important for two people to accommodate each other when getting along with each other. When a man is feeling down, let him be alone for a few days.