This is what women think in private

A harmonious relationship between husband and wife cannot be paved without a harmonious sex life. So how can we create a harmonious sex environment? In fact, the most important thing for men is to understand a woman’s thoughts and feelings during sex. Only by understanding her inner thoughts can he give her what she wants during sex, which can make life more harmonious and the relationship between husband and wife deeper.

During sex, every man thinks that he is familiar with sex and has enough skills to give his woman a good sex experience, but is this true? Do men really understand sex well enough to meet women's desires in sex? No, men do not understand women's true thoughts in bed. In order to change this situation, men should understand the sexual secrets hidden deep in women's hearts, so that they can mobilize women's sexual enthusiasm in a targeted manner.

Attraction

This is what every woman worries about, that she will lose her appeal to you as she ages. And this is the fact. For old couples, the wife is often afraid that she is no longer as attractive to her husband. For this reason, many women dare to take off their clothes only after turning off the lights. Careful men can sense this anxiety of women.

If she is no longer as pretty as a flower, there is no need to lie to her or say that she is no longer attractive. You should show her through your actions to let her know that she is still attractive to you.

Relax

Sex, in itself, is a pleasure, a game, and should be enjoyed, rather than having sex for the sake of sex or treating sex as a purpose. However, in real life, many men take sex too seriously. They forget to laugh, fail to perform romantic and naughty behaviors, and just have sex for the sake of sex, which is no different from the sexual intercourse between animals.

This often makes sex stressful and dull, and neither man nor woman can experience the pleasure of sex. Don't forget that sex is for enjoyment and men should relax a little.

Chat

During sex, men tend to rush around recklessly without any foreplay. When the desire comes, they rush in, and when the desire is gone, they fall asleep. But women don't think so. Before sex, women like to talk to men about their lives and thoughts. They want couples to be able to relax and talk on the sofa, or chat while taking a walk.

At this time, if the man can say some sweet words like "I love you" or "I care about you very much", the woman will have a strong sexual desire. Remember, great sex is based on mutual communication and understanding.

Interested

Women are emotional animals and tend to confuse many things together. To them, sex and life are inseparable. Unlike women, men can often separate factors such as the pressure of life from sex, but women cannot. How her lover treats her outside the bedroom directly affects her performance in bed.

For example, being indifferent to her, speaking harshly, or using a rude tone will make her unable to devote herself to sex and become passionate. If you see that your woman is not in a good mood, you can communicate with her and solve her problems.

Hand in hand

It is said that women are emotional animals. Instead of sweet words, they prefer direct physical contact, which can bring them more pleasure and warmth. Women love romance. Hugging, holding hands and kissing make them happy, and these physical contacts sometimes have nothing to do with sex.

But many women complain that men rarely perform this kind of intimate behavior with them except for foreplay. Therefore, don't just caress a woman during sex. Hug and kiss her often at other times, and she will feel happy.

More tenderness

This is the hope of almost all women. However, most men ignore this point and think that after the passion, there is no need to hug, chat and other activities. The most important thing is to sleep. In fact, this is very hurtful to women and will make them misunderstand that they are just a tool for men to vent their sexual desires.

So don't blame women for complaining that men fall asleep right after sex. Indeed, many men no longer show any affection once they have an orgasm. But at this time, women want more hugs or a longer chat, which can make them more satisfied.