New knowledge about sex: Should women take the initiative in intimacy?

In sexual life, men are usually active and women are passive. However, in today's sexually open society, women can also be the initiators of sex. However, women should also follow the eight secrets of female active sex, so that their sex life can be more perfect.

1. Sex Code

If a couple forms a specific sex code, sex will not require a long preparation. It is like a safe with a password. Each time you open the box, you can just press the password directly. There is no need to study the password every time, doing a lot of useless work and wasting unnecessary time.

2. Keep track of time

I guess no man likes his woman to take the initiative in sex every day. Sometimes when a man just wants to show his masculine power, give him a chance. You must choose the right time to take the initiative. Even if you are really stronger than your man, don't act stronger than your man. After all, during sexual intercourse, women need more caressing and arousal.

3. Serve according to the person

Men are also classified and cannot be treated the same. Is your man traditional or open-minded? Does he have male chauvinism? To determine whether a woman will take the initiative or not, she must first understand her man's temperament. If he seems to like you to obey him in everything, you should first estimate how much he can tolerate your initiative before taking action.

What a wonderful feeling it is to have a tacit understanding that can be understood with just a glance. When you offer him an olive branch of sex, he knows how to take it at the right time, and that is such a happy feeling.

4. Mystery

Just as people need some personal space no matter how close they are, a woman's initiative does not mean she should expose herself completely to the light and sight. Whether you are proactive or not, women must know how to retain a little mystery. Scarcity makes things valuable. Don't let a man see through you at first glance. The same applies when saying "you want". Being a little roundabout will definitely make you more charming than just saying "you want" directly.

Words are sometimes redundant. When a man fully understands your intentions, stop talking and express them with body language or eyes. In sex matters, sometimes there is only a fine line between seducing and being seduced, and it requires physical interaction rather than words. Let everything be said without words.

5. Bottom line control

Everyone has his own bottom line. You can't ask a man to do this or that just for your own happiness. If he doesn't want to, remember not to force him. No matter how popular the "sassy girlfriend" is, everyone still has his own principles. Don't blindly use others as a template. Don't touch his sexual taboos.

6. Gender equality

Just because you took the initiative, it doesn't mean you have to expect a man to respond. When a man is in his menstrual cycle or tired, he has the right to not have an erection, so that there is equality between the sexes.

7. Simply Sex

Active sex cannot be barter, and sex cannot be done for the purpose of exchanging objects. If you ask for sex just for an expensive set of cosmetics or a fur coat. Then the man will feel that he is paying for sex and will not respect you, and you will have no happiness in sex.