6 sentences men are most afraid of hearing

If you want to have a happy, healthy relationship, don't blurt out hurtful things to him, even when you're arguing.

1. “You make too little money!”

Everyone has self-esteem, and men's self-esteem needs to be maintained more. Accusing him of not making enough money is one of those things a woman should never say. The right approach is to encourage him as a "potential stock" and believe that he can achieve his desired goals sooner or later.

2. “I don’t like your mother!”

Once you say this, it means that the relationship between you and the relationship between you and his mother will not be very good. The focus is on how you can improve your relationship with his mother, not cause tension.

3. "My ex-boyfriend is much better than you!"

If you don't like being compared to others, you'd better not do the same thing to him. Besides making him jealous, it would also make him very sad. So, unless you want to break up with him, never say it easily.

4. “You need to find a better job!”

This is probably a hint that he makes too little money. You can help him analyze the pros and cons of his current career, but don't rush to make a decision for him, and don't order him to change jobs. Listen to his plans for his career and respect his opinions.

Do you think only women care about their figure and body shape? Men actually care about the impression their appearance gives to others as well. Instead of "ordering" him to lose weight, it is better to focus on correcting his habit of eating late-night snacks, or simply change his recent diet to vegetarian dishes, and kindly remind him that this is all for his health.

6. “I don’t like you doing XX”

Everyone has their own hobbies, just like women love shopping and men love playing games. If he is so obsessed with a hobby that it seriously affects your relationship, you can have a serious and earnest talk with him. If it is not that serious, don't interfere too much with his indulgence in things that make him happy.