How should men and women divide the work in sex?

Are there any detailed rules for the division of labor in your sex life? Have you done your part well? Today, the editor will give you an in-depth analysis of the division of labor in sex life.

Who should initiate sexual activities? Some couples are accustomed to the division of roles. Some husbands believe that they should be responsible for their wives' sexual needs, so, "No matter when and where, as long as she asks for it, I will satisfy her and never refuse her." Some husbands believe that sex is decided by men, and as long as they are happy, their wives will be satisfied, without considering the mood and physical condition of both parties at the time. This is the result of excessive restrictions and constraints on role division.

In fact, there should be a certain division of roles in sexual life, but it should not be overly limited. What is important is mutual understanding and respect. We should try to mobilize our own sexual initiative, explore the sexual potential of the other party, and through frank communication, understand each other's sexual sensitive areas, suitable postures, foreplay methods and other factors, and try to make the sexual needs of both parties consistent.

Although sexual life will have a certain regularity when the sexual needs of both parties are consistent, it is not constant. It changes with the mood of both parties, the strength of sexual desire, physical condition, environmental conditions and other factors. There should be an adjustment mechanism to achieve an appropriate balance in the satisfaction of both parties.

Generally speaking, when the husband is young, his wife can cool down his overheated sexual response by changing the environment, distracting his attention, etc.; while when the wife is young, she needs her husband to say sweet words, hug her often, etc. to help increase her sexual response, so that they can feel the "sexual pulse" of both parties and achieve a harmonious sexual life.