There is a science to getting along with your spouse: 7 desires of men that need to be taken seriously

1. Recognition

Men want to conquer the whole world, so what men need most is recognition and approval. Even though what he does may be meaningless, don't hit the man. A blow will hurt a man's self-esteem and make him feel lonely and helpless.

Smart women should learn to appreciate men. Men cannot conquer the entire world, but they hope to conquer their women's world.

When the Creator created human beings, he gave men and women different personalities and thinking. Only then will they be attracted to each other, so women should recognize men. This is the way for couples to get along with each other, it is not foolish.

2. Warmth

Men are very fragile creatures. Most of the time, what they need is a feeling of warmth, not just physical warmth, but more of spiritual warmth. When they are tired and exhausted, they will hide in a corner like a little animal to bask in the warm sun.

Don't just think that men are strong. In fact, men need warmth, care and sweet words more than women.

3. Considerate

Men like watching movies, football, and the NBA because men’s emotional world is straightforward, not tangled like spider silk.

When a man is pursuing a woman he likes, he can give everything. This is the desire of man's nature: to conquer. Don't think that men will always be so good to you. Men can also get tired and annoyed. Men also need consideration and care.

4. Food

No matter how accomplished or successful a man is. One thing is the same: three meals a day, food is always in the mouth and tea is always in the hand. Men are not air, they need to live. No matter what he is thinking or doing, one thing is certain: he needs to eat. You can only survive if you fill your stomach. So smart wives will recite the saying: To capture a man's heart, you must first capture his stomach.

Fill his stomach first. Even if a man is heartless, he may miss your cooking skills and the meals you make. Give a man normal living conditions and he will feel comforted.

5. Tolerance

No one is perfect, and men make mistakes too. Men are impulsive animals, so they often make mistakes. When dealing with a man’s mistakes, a wife should be as tolerant as a mother, educate and guide him. It will be a great help for him to realize his mistakes and improve. Instead of pushing men into the abyss, letting them go further and further and unable to extricate themselves.

Men are kites and women are strings. Don’t let the kite’s string break and lose its way home. Being tolerant to men also means being tolerant to yourself and to the world.

6. Understanding

Don't force your man to go shopping with you. This is a fatal mistake that wives often make. Men are not interested in those colorful accessories. Going shopping with a woman is a torment, not a pleasure. The biggest feeling a man has when he goes shopping with a woman is: "I have so much pain that I can't express it..."

Understand men. Don’t think that a man accompanying you shopping is a sign of love. That’s because you can’t afford to offend him. A smart wife should go shopping by herself, change her clothes, hairstyle, and image to make the man's eyes light up. Understanding men while giving yourself a lot of space, why not do it?

7. Confidante

Men are looking for a confidante all their lives, because men's hearts are easily lonely and isolated and will not be easily satisfied, so men want to communicate and hope that someone knows their status. Know your own difficulties, get sympathy, get warmth, get sweet words, get freshness, and get the feeling of being loved. Even if it is like a moth flying into a flame, we must pursue the magnificence of the moment.