How many of the five realms of romantic encounters have you experienced?

Introduction: When a person has a friend of the opposite sex, it is generally called a "romantic encounter". A romantic encounter is like plants, a romantic encounter is like waves, a romantic encounter is like gold and jade, a romantic encounter is like pearls, a romantic encounter is like diamonds. A romantic encounter will have different results in different degrees.

One is called "the encounter between grass and trees"

It is purely because of physical attraction or sexual desire, or just because they are bored or even because of money that the two parties come together, go their separate ways after a brief moment of enjoyment, and soon forget each other without leaving any memories worth cherishing. This is the lowest level of "affair", also known as "ruthless encounter".

The second is "Encounter with Waves"

Both of them were lonely and met by chance, like water meeting the wind and colliding with the shore. After a brief period of mutual understanding and familiarity, they discovered some common points, which stirred up splashes in their hearts and generated excitement. Both of them soon fell into the love web woven by illusion.

When external conditions change and the illusion disappears, the two become strangers again. "Affairs" at this level often do not last long. After separation, there are gratitude and resentment, and the impression becomes vague after a long time.

The third is "Gold and Jade Encounter"

When one party meets an outstanding or excellent person of the opposite sex, he or she is struck by the beauty and therefore uses all his or her skills to pursue the person deliberately. The party being pursued is finally attracted and moved. After a long period of interaction, both parties discover that they have many similarities in temperament, character, and talent, and gradually develop feelings for each other, which is usually called "love."

If conditions permit, maybe we will become "lovers", maybe we will become "LOVERs". If the external environment is not supportive, they may just be spiritual friends of the opposite sex. No matter what the outcome is, the time we spend together will become a beautiful memory in our lives. This level of "romantic encounter" is what ordinary people yearn for.

However, it is often restricted by external conditions such as appearance, temperament, personality, talent, money, and status. If such an opportunity occurs, it is considered to be cause for celebration.

Fourth day: "Pearl Encounter"

The two parties meet unintentionally and are attracted by each other's inner cultivation or voice, appearance and smile without any mental preparation. Or a small thing revealed unintentionally resonates with the two and leaves a deep impression in their hearts. During the short period of casual interaction, neither side deliberately did anything or said anything. After separation, we went our separate ways. And deep in my memory, the scene of our first meeting often flashes back.

Maybe we will contact each other later through letters or phone calls, or maybe we will do nothing. Both parties have no intention of changing their current living situation, but they cherish the beautiful emotions in the world in their hearts, like treasured round and smooth pearls in their hearts. If both parties have good cultivation, the relationship will stop there; if one is not careful, one will fall to the third level and "degenerate into love."

Fifth Day: "Diamond Encounter"

Often in a glance, a word, or an event...

The moment was like lightning that struck the hearts of both parties, and they quickly left a special space for each other in their hearts. They sensed each other, moved each other, cared about each other, cherished each other, and became a lifelong fate. Of course, such things can only happen between opposite sexes, but both parties often ignore each other's appearance, region, status and other external things, and only focus on spiritual communication and spiritual care.

Generally speaking, this level of "affair" lasts the longest, even for a lifetime, or can be so touching that it becomes a legend for generations to come. As for whether there is a happy ending, that is a secondary issue. It is worth noting that this highest level of emotional encounter is often difficult to grasp unless both parties have high self-cultivation and self-control. Diamonds are the most precious, but they have edges and corners, and sometimes they can be painful when hidden in your heart.