3 Tendencies That Make You a Backup Planner

It is a very happy thing to meet someone in the vast sea of ​​people, but if you are treated as a spare tire, will you still feel good? Be careful not to become a spare tire for someone else's love, and recognize the three tendencies of becoming a spare tire. I don’t know when it started, but for many couples, if one partner gets into another relationship more quickly after breaking up, it means they have lost face and feel like a failure. In order to get rid of this embarrassing situation, they will look for a backup person who can be on duty at any time when the situation arises.

The appearance of a spare tire is the result of a quarrel between two people, or one party cannot afford to lose face in front of relatives and friends. Morally speaking, the act of hoarding spare tires is condemnable. However, morality cannot forcibly constrain a person's behavior, so if you want to avoid becoming a spare tire, you must open your eyes and use your brain to get to know men.

First of all, I would like to introduce to you three types of love tendencies that are likely to make you fall into the fate of being a spare tire. Women who are likely to fall into the fate of being a spare tire generally have the following characteristics.

Not good at organizing your backpack

1. Not good at organizing backpacks. Backpack cluttered with unnecessary items such as receipts

2. Being pursued by many people you don’t like, but not getting along well with the people you like

3. Like to act alone. In an emergency, no one can help you.

4. Not clear about their preferences, often answering "whatever"

5. You can give anything for the person you love

Informal

People who are informal have the following characteristics:

6. Don’t be fussy about details. Not caring about small things like heels falling off

7. Always apologize first when arguing with someone

8. If you don’t take the initiative to contact the other party, the other party will not contact you

9. Always being comforted by psychologically vulnerable people and told to “cheer up”

Confused Love

If you meet points 1, 3, and 5 of the above characteristics, you have a tendency to fall in love with a "confused love". I have no idea what I like or want to try. Although they have a strong sense of autonomy, if they do not make their feelings and wishes clear, they will often fall into the other person's pace.