It must be uncomfortable for couples to care about this thing in bed

Many couples have a misunderstanding that the frequency and number of times of sex are very important, and only with more times and a stronger frequency can the sex life be happy. In fact, this idea is not correct, the frequency and number of sexual intercourse are not that important.

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According to an expert survey of 1,279 couples in 31 large and medium-sized cities (the following figures are all based on this survey), 78% of wives attach more importance to the former rather than the latter. When it comes to the frequency of sexual intercourse and the quality of sexual intercourse (how many orgasms a wife can get from it), 85% of wives prefer high quality rather than large quantity.

It is not the case that more sexual activity is better for men. Around the age of 30 to 35, more than half of husbands experience that their sexual needs have actually changed quietly, from needing large quantities to seeking high quality, hoping to obtain deeper emotional communication and experience.

Behavioral errors

For this reason, if a man believes that the frequency of sexual intercourse is the main criterion, or even the only criterion, for marital harmony, he is likely to make two behavioral mistakes.

First, he may ignore or deny his wife's emotional needs, simplify sex life and turn it into a series of actions, which may seriously hurt his wife's personality and emotions.

Psychological burden

Second, he may invisibly increase his psychological burden. Once he gets older or encounters special circumstances and cannot maintain the high frequency he believes in, he will suspect that he has impotence or premature ejaculation, and will be afraid of letting his wife down. He may even doubt or become disappointed in his entire personality and life goals. As a result, the stronger you are, the less you can withstand unexpected events.

In fact, the frequency of a man's sexual life is basically determined by his physiological condition and age, which is similar among all ethnic groups in the world. In addition, almost every man will have some periods of less sexual intercourse and some periods of more sexual intercourse in his life. There is no question of "how many times it should be". A man's sexual charm mainly lies in his mature personality, his understanding and broad mind, and his deep and persistent emotions. If men do not pay attention to the cultivation of these aspects, but only care about or brag about the frequency of sex, it will be difficult for them to get out of the misunderstanding of sexual life.