The bottom line for women to get married: some men are not worth marrying no matter how much you love them

For women, marriage and family are the most important things. This is especially important for the man who is marrying you. The adjustment between the two determines whether their married life will be happy. The best guarantee for a happy marriage is for a couple to have similar personalities, similar outlooks on life and money.

1. A man who is strict with others but lenient with himself

It is better to stay away from men who are just doing a perfunctory job but have a lot of demands on their girlfriends. Men like this are most likely to become sharp-tongued men after marriage. When getting married, the least you should require is to be respected by your husband. A man who thinks he has the right to order his wife around is not a good marriage partner.

2. Men who do not share the same values ​​as you

Similar personalities and similar outlooks on life and money are the best guarantees for a good marriage. Because of different personalities, two people cannot get along with each other on a daily basis. Even if the whole world recognizes them as a golden boy and a jade girl, a perfect match, they cannot get married. After all, you will spend most of your life with him, and you know the joys and sorrows of that person.

3. A man who says he is not worthy of you from the beginning

For some outstanding girls, they will always meet some men who seem to have potential. You change yourself for him and give your all, but he says that you are too good to him and that he (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) is not worthy of you. A man who says he is not worthy of you at the beginning will never be worthy of you in the future. A man who has no self-confidence and can only date you by giving in will not be good to you in the future. Your excellence will only make him feel more inferior.

4. Men with family disharmony

It's not about how much money his family has, but whether his family is harmonious and caring and courteous. If there is a man in a family who beats a woman, and everyone turns a blind eye and pretends not to see it, no one will care about your life or death in the future. Every family has its shortcomings. You should ask your boyfriend about his attitude. A man who is blindly loyal has limited respect for his wife.

5. A man who is reluctant to spend money on you

A man who is stingy with himself and his girlfriend is not interesting. A man who is lenient with himself but stingy with his girlfriend must be selfish and is the one you should never marry.

Money is the thing that can best reflect a man's nature and feelings. Women don't talk about money when they fall in love, but if he makes you feel wrong about money, you should think carefully about whether he is right for you. When you are in a relationship, normal consumption is a must. A man who makes it clear that he wants to split the bill from the beginning is too calculating and too afraid of being at a disadvantage. In future marriages, there will be many things that require sacrifice, and men like this will be the first to run away.

6. The man who beats people

Don’t keep a man who hits others. If you are hit once, you must break up with him. Similarly, you should not keep a man who is philandering or has multiple relationships at the same time. Once unfaithful, you cannot forgive him a hundred times. If you find out once, you must break up. As the old saying goes, if you don't make a decision when you should, you will suffer the consequences . In love, a woman must have her own bottom line. There are some men you cannot marry, no matter how much you love them. You must never give up your dignity and compromise just because you love him. A good relationship and marriage must be a win-win situation, not a one-sided sacrifice and fulfillment. Women should also work hard to make themselves better, from their abilities to their looks. Because, if you don't become better, the next man will never be better. Love also requires equality.