How many of these 5 misunderstandings about sexual intercourse have you fallen into?

The issue of sexual intercourse between couples has never stopped being discussed from ancient times to the present. Sexual intercourse is the panacea for maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. For couples who have disharmonious sexual intercourse, their colds will definitely not get better. Of course, sex is also an important factor in satisfying the physiological needs of both men and women, but in order to enable the other party to achieve the best effect, couples often tell some white lies. Men all like virgins. This is not just a matter of "face" for men. They just like the tightness of a virgin. As long as a woman is tight enough, men will be fascinated by the fragrance of her skirt for a long time.

Rumor 1: The longer you make love, the better?

Actually: Half right, half wrong

The length of time does not indicate how many times the other person can reach the climax of sexual intercourse! Men think that the time of lovemaking is a data that shows their masculinity, but women do not think so (unless it really ends with just shouting one, two, three).

When it comes to comparing the duration of lovemaking, women may want to compare the length and frequency of their peak pleasure, rather than the meaningless "holding out".

Rumor 2: Women like men who can make their blood boil?

Actually: Yes

But the scope of the blood-boiling scene does not only include the intermission scene where the two of them are together! Everyone likes people who make people's blood boil, no matter if they are men or women.

However, this ecstasy is different for men and women. Men focus on the main event, while women focus on foreplay. So women like men to make their blood boil, but the premise is that it must be a complete set, with foreplay, intermission, and curtain call. If there is only the intermission of the two people performing together, sorry, no matter how excited they are, women will feel regretful!

Rumor 3: Men wish their wives were all virgins?

Actually: Half right, half wrong

Ideals and actual needs are contradictory, this is a man's fantasy! A man wants to marry a virgin because he can have a woman's precious first time. This is not only a matter of "face" for men, but also a physiological desire. The tightness of a virgin is unquestionable, but mature women gradually lose the "grip" of their private parts because they are attached to the pleasure of sex and have sex many times.

Men love the sexual skills of mature women, but can't bear to give up the tight "grip" of virgins. If a mature woman can have a tight "grip", no matter what men say, most men will be attracted to such mature women in their hearts and wish they could have a passionate life every night.

Rumor 4: Men can’t fake orgasms?

Actually: No

Men will also pretend to have an orgasm for the sake of face, to please women and hypnotize themselves that they are actually very good! Many married women will pay attention to skin care and weight loss, but often ignore the care of their private parts. Because women's private parts are loose and weak, men will lose interest in sex.

Faced with his wife's requests for sex, he could only bite the bullet and "fulfill his obligations." The wife aroused her husband all over and was complacent when she heard his weak moans, but she did not pay attention to the dissatisfaction and helplessness that came from his voice. In this regard, experts said that sexual disharmony can easily lead to marital breakdown.

Rumor 5: Women who moan in bed are the most lewd?

Actually: Incorrect

Whether or not the sex is moaning or lewd depends on the feelings of both parties, not the feelings of the listener! Due to tradition and education, Chinese women dare not make any sound even if they are enjoying themselves in bed. Besides the fact that walls have ears, another concern is that their husbands may think they are lewd.

Think about it, if you don’t scream loudly when you are most excited while riding a roller coaster, then the fun will be lost by more than half. Similarly, if you don’t murmur or scream a few times when enjoying the climax, it will be difficult to feel comfortable all over! Do you want to try it?

Are you also affected by these sex lies? Are you worried that there are problems with your sex behavior and sex life? In fact, if you can understand the principle of "a happy life is in my hands", then you don't have to compare the durability of sex, nor do you have to worry about embarrassment and unsatisfied desires during sex. Everyone has the right to pursue "sexual happiness". The measure of happiness lies in one's own heart, and only one knows whether it is too much or not enough.