5 classic ways to fight against mistresses: Women should love themselves the most

If you want to defeat the mistress, you must never confront her head-on. You should always remember: no matter how rotten your apple is, it is rotten in his pocket. No matter how beautiful her beautiful apple is, its beauty is only on the outside. And this is the key to defeating her.

First

A woman should love herself at all times. The more frustrated she is, the more she should love herself . A woman who does not even love herself has no right to get more and more lasting love from a man. Of course, I am not saying this to ask women to be selfish and not care about the lives of others. Instead, teach them to have self-pity, self-confidence and self-improvement, to keep themselves in mind at all times and in all places, and not foolishly regard themselves as an appendage of men.

A considerable proportion of women’s marital unhappiness is caused or influenced by their lack of self-love. Especially when a man shows a little laziness or indifference towards her, she will not know how to love herself even more. You will become confused and less confident inside, so you will give up and become unkempt, which will accelerate your aging and strengthen the signal of "boredom" in the eyes of men. In this way, a vicious cycle is formed . Even without the help of the mistress outside, you will be defeated by yourself.

Second

Never give up your advantageous position as a wife. It is better to take defense as offense . Compared with the mistress outside, you always believe that your wife has the best time, place and people in terms of emotion, society and time logic. Generally speaking, as long as you can choose the right favorable terrain at the right time and don't abandon the city easily to attack, if you use defense as offense, you can most likely win.

Third

Learn from your opponents appropriately and change what can be changed.

Perhaps the two points mentioned above are just a way of defense through self-cultivation. But only by knowing yourself and your enemy can you win every battle. You have to know what your opponent is like and what her strengths are, so as to decide how to deal with her. Obviously, the best and most effective way to deal with it is to learn. Learning from a mistress who seduces your husband may seem cruel on the surface, but it is actually a kind of wisdom and self-reflection. No one is perfect, no one is saint. Since ancient times, no one is perfect. As long as it is useful to yourself and can improve yourself, there is no shame in learning from anyone.

Fourth

If obstruction is ineffective, then simply don't block it. Instead, you might as well blow some air to speed up the oxidation of the "apple" . There is a kind of victory called winning without fighting. There are two key points to this kind of victory, that is, time and letting the opponent disintegrate from the inside. He and the mistress, whether it was a momentary passion or love, will eventually not escape the test of time. Time will give them an answer. The secular world, which is more unfavorable than you were in the past, will give them the resistance they deserve and will make their relationship even more fragile and short-lived because of their immorality. Excuse me for being frank, but from now on, this kind of feeling is most likely no match for the love cycle you and him had in the past.

Of course, few women have this mentality and can withstand this kind of waiting because their youth does not allow it. Therefore, we should take some actions, even if it is just using external force to blow at the rotten apple, it may accelerate its oxidation. But this kind of "blowing" does not mean that you really have to blow it to her. The sky is always blue suggests that it is best to blow it to your man. When necessary, you can also blow it to his parents . This blowing does not have to be all nitpicking blowing, you can also blow it in a flattering way.

Fifth

Playing the family card, the fragility of "love" will eventually be vulnerable. People always like to praise the romance and sweetness of love, but that is only because love lacks the support of family affection. As long as family affection exists, love, whether true or false, will inevitably expose its fragility and short-lived fate. Therefore, when facing a mistress who is better than herself, a smart wife will always be good at playing the card of family affection. The good things that happened between you, the happiness and every little bit of hardship you experienced together, can all become the trump card of your family affection. Also, your children, your in-depth knowledge of each other for more than ten years, and the countless times you have been tolerant of them... all of these, as long as you give them a suitable atmosphere and a reasonable trigger, will become the trump card of family affection with infinite power.