The sexual psychology of women liking to hold men's hands

Women and men express their emotions in different ways. Women like to use physical contact to express their kindness and intimacy, but men rarely use actions to show closeness.

When a woman is shy or not good at expressing her feelings in words, she is accustomed to using physical contact, the most primitive and direct method, as a means of conveying her feelings.

From a psychological point of view, women are more emotional and think based on their feelings. Their senses are more acute than men, especially their sense of touch. Therefore, women are more accustomed to using tactile sensations instead of language expression. When people are dating their girlfriends, they should not only listen to what she says with their ears, but also watch what she does with their eyes. Only in this way can we more accurately understand her true intentions.

Experts in body language have found that everyone has a kind of psychological "alertness", that is, a sense of one's "sphere of influence". Each person is self-centered and expands outward to form an egg-shaped psychological defense space. Once other people invade, he (she) will become nervous, alert and resist. The more unfamiliar the people are, the farther they are from each other and the greater the distance between their bodies. On the contrary, the distance of the psychological defense space will gradually shrink. For example, the relationship between normal couples, parents and children is the closest, so the psychological distance between them can be reduced to zero, that is, close physical contact is created.

Therefore, if your female companion always likes to hold your hand intimately or touch your body when walking, it means that the psychological distance between her and you has been greatly shortened, and she does not care about you invading her "sphere of influence".

Some men do not understand women's way of expressing intimacy. When their girlfriend's body is close to them, they become overjoyed and mistakenly believe that she has physical desire for them. As a result, he will probably be disappointed. When a woman touches a man's body, it is not entirely for physical contact, but more for a spiritual and psychological closeness. She may just be doing this to show her affection and closeness to you. Therefore, don't let your imagination run wild.