If you don't change these 8 problems of older single women, you will always be single

1. Not knowing what you want

Do you want a wolf or a dog? Some are wolves, cunning, insidious, and resourceful. They know how to play, and it’s fun and exciting to be together, but they are not suitable for living together. Some are like dogs, honest, obedient and safe, they don't understand romance, they are not romantic, and it's dull and boring to be with them. But suitable. Lover and husband are two different concepts. Some older women feel that being with wolves is dangerous and inappropriate. Being with a dog is boring, uninteresting and unhappy. The end result is that you are caught in a dilemma and waste your time. There is no perfect good thing in the world. Or you say you want to find a wolfhound, man, you will know when you meet one, that kind of person is more dangerous and fickle, he is a drug and you cannot stand him. What's more, what you like, everyone likes. Are you tired?

2. Always want to find something that you can control.

We have to negotiate conditions again. It's quite realistic. If you like someone who is rich and handsome, others will like him too. Others have many choices and of course they are arrogant. You can't control them, and you feel tired and insecure. If you have no money and are ugly, you will feel unwilling and dissatisfied. Although you can control it and feel safe, you still feel it is meaningless. So I come and go, stuck in a dilemma.

3. Don’t read the words

To be cool, you need to have the capital, either be beautiful, rich, or talented. If you act like you have nothing but 20,000, 50,000 or 80,000 yuan, people will just stay away from you. You must know that you know your own value very well. You cannot add points to yourself by being arrogant or conceited. On the contrary, it will deduct points from you.

4. You are overwhelmed by the choices

In the name of choice, you can move back and forth and enjoy a happy time. It's a pity that you are not a pig. You are indecisive and evasive. This is a problem of being a human being and a moral issue. Nine out of ten people will be reserved towards you and won’t give anything to you, so it’s rare for you to meet true love. If you like to play around in the world and have fun, and in the end you meet playboys and those who love to play tricks on you, then don't complain about your short life. There must be something hateful about a pitiful person.

5. Wanting everything is too greedy

I want money, a house, a car, looks, a figure, consideration, care, I want others to revolve around me and be nice to me. There is no such good thing. God is fair, good things won't come to you so easily. You want so much, what do you give to others? Equal exchange, that's how this society works.

6. Having experienced too much, I am pessimistic and dark inside.

I don’t believe, I don’t believe in love, I have no confidence in life, I have no confidence in myself, and I am incapable of love.

7. Got it wrong, lost it, or got it lost

There is no need to talk about such MM.

8. Once you have seen the sea, you will never forget the past.

I always think that the past was the best and I don’t cherish the person in front of me. Love is used up and love is over. I always compare people today with people in the past, and always feel that things are different now than they were yesterday.