Japanese woman taking off her kimono

The most perfect life in the world is: "Live in a British house, eat Chinese food, get an American salary, and one more thing is to marry a Japanese woman." Speaking of Japanese women, men all over the world (even those who are very "anti-Japanese") will think that they are virtuous and gentle.

The Japanese wives we see in many movies are like this:

Get up at five or six in the morning to prepare breakfast for her husband and prepare his underwear, socks, shirts, suits and ties for the day, not even forgetting the handkerchief.

Usually, after preparing lunch for her husband and children and sending them out of the house, she would start doing laundry and cleaning the house.

Many people who have never really come into contact with Japanese women think that Japanese women seem to be more virtuous.

In the evening, the bath water is warmed up, the dishes are laid out, and we wait for the "master" who has been tired all day. When the doorbell rings, the housewife's "final performance" of the day begins with a gentle "thank you for your hard work".

It is more like having dinner with a companion than having dinner with my husband and children. During the banquet, the housewife has the responsibility to add food and wine to everyone's table, clean up, etc.

I asked many Japanese friends: "Are all Japanese women like this?" They laughed and said "No! That's from old movies..."

Japanese kimono women, this is what you think of Japanese women

The Japanese drama "Yamato Nadeshiko" was popular on a Chinese channel of a domestic satellite TV station some time ago. The story tells of a poor stewardess Sakurako who betrayed her lover in order to marry into a wealthy family. She even disowned her father who raised her with great difficulty and regarded this marriage as a business.

This reflects the common psychology of many Japanese women today. Today's Japanese women are no longer the fixed image in people's minds.

Japanese women taking off their kimonos are no longer a fixed image in people's minds.

Once I asked a Japanese friend if they still wear kimonos nowadays. He said he had never worn one, but his grandfather seemed to have worn one.

What do Japanese women look like after taking off their kimonos?

In the busy streets of Tokyo, such as Shibuya, Harajuku, Shinjuku or Ikebukuro, you can always see some girls in school uniform skirts saying ambiguously to the middle-aged men passing by, "Can you give me money?"

For many married Japanese women, "infidelity" and "extramarital affairs" have become a fashion and trend that they pursue. The survey shows that the number of people who believe that one must remain "pure" after marriage has dropped from 53% in 1968 to 31% today (2003).

In the busy streets of Tokyo, you can always see some girls wearing school uniforms.

Many middle-aged and elderly Japanese women can also be said to be "keeping up with the times." Chinese people often say "people grow old and their beauty fades". But in Japan, those women who dress elegantly and wear lots of jewelry are often middle-aged or older women.

My Japanese teacher once told me: "I think Chinese elderly people are very energetic, especially men. They run and swim every day after retirement. In Japan, most men go to the hospital every day after retirement."

There are some old women in Japan who, after saving enough money for retirement, suddenly announce their divorce from their husbands when their husbands retire and return home.

They kicked their husbands out the door as "big garbage" because they could not do any housework except running to the hospital every day.

Even if there are deep-seated social reasons for this, it still feels too cruel.

For many married Japanese women, "unfaithfulness" and "extramarital affairs" have become a fashion.

A young Chinese man who worked in a Japanese company fell in love with a Japanese female doctor, and after marriage they had a boy. The female doctor never took out her own salary, and the expenses of the family of three depended entirely on the man.

Later, due to the economic downturn in Japan, the man lost his job. So the Japanese wife said, "You don't have a job now and you can't take on the responsibilities of a man. I can't live with you anymore." In the end they broke up.

I was surprised to hear this true story. Because they were in a free love relationship and had a child. Doctors' salaries in Japan are very high. She fully understands that life is not easy for Chinese men in Japan, and everyone should work together to get through the difficult days.

Japanese women who take off their kimonos believe that men without jobs have nothing, and they are cruelly realistic. What kind of women are Japanese beauties?

Flirtatious and cool, this is the real Japanese woman under the kimono

Japanese Little Women: Ruining Innocence In the busy streets of Tokyo, such as Shibuya, Harajuku, Shinjuku or Ikebukuro, you can always see some strange people, especially at night or on holidays.

There are many teenage Japanese women on the streets, but purity seems to be out of their reach.

They come in groups of three or five, with their faces deliberately tanned brown or black, their hair dyed brown or yellow, they wear pajama-like suspender skirts, and thick-soled shoes like Peking Opera boots, and they pass by you chatting and laughing as if no one is around.