Three things women expect in bed

As the saying goes, one should have good character in life, good drinking habits, good card playing habits... In fact, sex also requires "bed qualities", which refers to the personal qualities shown during sex, which can reflect the degree of love and consideration for your partner. In other words, if you love the other person enough, you should work hard to improve your sexual quality and make the other person feel your deep love. Couples can examine and improve their "bedding" from the following aspects.

Don't force it

As the saying goes, "A forced melon is not sweet." The sexual process requires physical and mental commitment and interaction between both parties, so it is not appropriate to force the other party. This reflects the understanding and respect between the two sexes. Therefore, sex should be had at a time that is appropriate for both parties, avoiding interference from factors such as fatigue, illness, depression, and women's menstrual period. Even one instance of "forcing oneself" may cause one's partner to develop an aversion to sex, which is detrimental to the relationship between the couple.

Focus on cleanliness

Cleaning is the most routine and basic preparation before sex. It can not only wash away secretions, reduce local body odors, prevent the other person from feeling uncomfortable or losing interest in sex, but also effectively reduce the possibility of bacterial infection. The areas that need to be cleaned include: mouth and teeth. Brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before sex to freshen your breath. Armpits. Some people have more sweat glands in their armpits, which have a strong odor. They need to be cleaned carefully with soap or shower gel, and you can also spray some perfume after bathing. Genitals. Men should focus on cleaning the dirt inside the foreskin, while women should wash the secretions from the vulva.

Do a good job of foreplay

Foreplay is the switch of sexual desire and the prelude to a perfect sex life. Praising, kissing, caressing, etc. are all indispensable parts of foreplay. It is worth reminding that, physiologically speaking, men and women are born with different foreplay rhythms. Men tend to be "visual animals". They react as soon as they see a body and are eager to enter the other person's body. Women are "feeling animals". Without sufficient foreplay, it is difficult for their vulva to become moist, and they may feel pain and discomfort during sex. On the contrary, if foreplay lasts too long, it may lead to erectile dysfunction (in middle-aged and elderly men) or premature ejaculation (in young men). Therefore, foreplay time requires full communication between the two sexes, and men should fully care about women's feelings and reactions.