This happened during the wedding night and made men blush and their hearts beat fast

China has had the custom of making trouble in the bridal chamber since ancient times. It is to increase the festive atmosphere and is also the most lively part of the wedding. However, some relatives and friends will play pranks on the newlyweds and bridesmaids in the name of folk customs. In many places, the custom of "disturbing the bridal chamber" has deviated from its original intention and become more vulgar and obscene. This is an unforgivable thing for the wedding couple, and there will definitely be a lot of embarrassment for relatives and friends afterwards!

The following are common bridal chamber customs:

1. The bride was hugged, fondled and molested by the groom's brothers in turn. Her wedding dress was torn off during the struggle, and someone even put his hand into the bride's skirt and raped her.

2. Hang a banana under the groom’s belt buckle and let the bride eat it. This bridal chamber game contains indecent actions and sexual innuendos, which can easily make the bride feel embarrassed or even awkward.

3. The groom plays the role of the bride and his whole body is covered with graffiti. Many people like to let the groom play the role of the bride in the bridal chamber, wear women's underwear, and graffiti on his body with lipstick and write obscene words. Apart from the word "perverted", I can't think of any other words to describe it.

4. The so-called "tamping" means that the groom's best man and friends lift the bridesmaid's hands and feet, throw her into the air, and then let her fall freely. Usually someone will catch her with their hands or put a thick quilt on the bed. Miss Liu went to be a bridesmaid for her friend, but during the bridal chamber, she was "beaten" on the bed by several young men, causing a fracture in her left ankle. She was sent to the hospital, and the doctor said she would need at least two months of rest to recover.

5. "Egg taking". Guests put chicken eggs or duck eggs into the groom's pants and ask the bride to take them out from left to right. This game can easily cause physical harm and is also extremely vulgar.

6. Pour honey on the groom or the bride, and then ask the other party to lick it in public. After a day of wedding procedures, there is sweat, bacteria and other substances on the body. When licking honey, the dirt will also be eaten into the stomach, which is very unhygienic.

7. Going out half-naked. The man, with his upper body almost naked, wearing "rabbit ears" on his head, a Superman-style underwear worn outside, and a pair of blinking rubber shoes, walked onto the street surrounded by a group of friends, holding a wooden sign that read "I'm getting married today, everyone is welcome to come and find fault" and interacting with many passers-by.

8. Two people take turns to compose poems or lyrics about various body organs from head to toe, such as chest: "chest is well-planned"; the examiner is the guest. If the guest is not satisfied with the answer, he can ask the other party to kiss that part!

9. Lock the door of the bridal chamber in advance and hide the key somewhere or on a good friend. Then let the groom look for it. Every time he fails to find the key, the bride must let the guest kiss it once until he finds it.

Most people get married with the intention of growing old together. For this reason, every detail of the bridal chamber will be remembered for a lifetime. This shows that civilized bridal chamber etiquette is very important. However, there are always too many indecent bridal chamber customs among the people, which may become a nightmare for the bride, groom and bridesmaids, turning the originally festive day into a farce where they want to quarrel but are too embarrassed to do so.

However, if there are no lively 'programs' on the wedding day, the wedding will seem very lonely. For this reason, many brides or grooms can only allow themselves to be 'molested' by their friends in order to cater to their friends' demands.

However, all "vulgar" games should have a limit, and it is not ruled out that some lustful people will take the opportunity to make their dirty moves in the name of making trouble in the bridal chamber. Especially after the bride or bridesmaid is violated by a pervert, they can only suffer in silence, otherwise they will be regarded as a "weirdo" who can't stand being fooled by others.

In fact, those vulgar bridal chamber customs have harmed many people, causing many women to be traumatized by the bridal chamber pranks, to feel bored with men, and even to make unmarried bridesmaids fear marriage. Therefore, vulgar bridal chamber customs can cause great harm to people.

Since all the people who have been baptized by the wedding hate the bridal chamber customs that deviate from the original intention, then someone should stand up and say no to vulgarity. Nowadays, many people choose professional wedding companies to get married. Almost all the procedures on the wedding day are controlled by the wedding companies. For this reason, wedding companies have the responsibility and obligation to innovate some meaningful and lively bridal chamber games, and not let vulgar bridal chamber etiquette make people miserable.

I have seen such a scene before: on a man’s wedding day, his parents’ faces were covered with shoe polish, the groom’s thighs were pinched blue and purple by the bridesmaids, and the bride was also beaten up by the groomsmen. I would like to ask, can this bridal chamber custom that comes at the cost of ugliness, pain, or sexual assault be called a celebration?

A wedding needs to be a lively and festive scene, but it is also sacred and solemn. It should not be lively just for the sake of liveliness, nor should vulgarity be used as the capital for liveliness.

Vulgar bridal chamber customs should say goodbye to today's civilized weddings, and we should not allow vile games to continue to appear in the bridal chamber.