In fact, women don't like you to treat her like this during sex.

1. "Can I lend you my coat?"

Many men think that lending a coat to a girl when it's cold is a heroic, romantic and gentlemanly act. Well, maybe some girls didn't notice the temperature and accidentally wore too little, and they might be happy about it, but in fact they are a minority. Most women don't like this behavior:

A 27-year-old respondent said: "I found that many men's coats are not very clean. They smell like sweat or tobacco, as if they haven't been washed for several years. To be honest, this behavior is very unpleasant."

Another 29-year-old woman said: "Maybe young couples like this kind of behavior, but when you are nearly 30, it will only be embarrassing if a man lends you a coat."

So, losers, stop being so self-righteous and forcing girls to put on your stinky coats. Reality is not as romantic as fairy tales.

2. "I'll treat you (well, just a little bit)"

For example: A man and a woman had dinner at a restaurant and the bill was 9,000 yen (about 550 RMB). Then the man took out his wallet and said generously: "Just pay 4000 and I'll pay the rest." It's really... But in fact, compared with AA, he only paid 500 yen more.

This kind of behavior will only annoy the girls. Instead of showing such a condescending attitude, it would be better for everyone to split the bill equally.

A 28-year-old woman said: "I hate it when men pay a little extra and act like they're treating. I'd rather split the bill!"

Of course, paying the bill on a dinner date is a complicated matter. Some people hold the traditional view that it is natural for men to pay the bill, but others think that since gender equality is the goal, women should also pay the bill. But no matter how much money you pay, it's not right to put on airs.

3. “Don’t touch my hair!”

This is probably the biggest misconception. Hair caressing is often used as a flirting technique in movies, TV shows, and books. In fact, girls hate this behavior:

"I absolutely do not want a man I just met touching my hair!" (said a 28-year-old woman.)

“I don’t want my hair to be messed up!” (This is what a 30-year-old woman thinks)

"I don't want to be treated like a child, and I don't like him looking down on me!" (27-year-old girl said)

In other words, girls will only accept caressing their hair after they have reached a certain level of intimacy or have completely fallen in love with you. If you are not sure, don't act rashly or worry about the white swan flying away.