6 secrets to stay attractive and make your husband obsessed with you

Men tend to get tired of old things and want new things easily because old things have lost their appeal and novelty. If you want to hold on to your husband's heart and avoid becoming a defeated, shrewd woman, you have to know how to tap into your own charm. Consider the following points and be a victorious female general in your marriage.

First, don’t turn the mysterious area into a tourist area for men, but turn it into an adventure area for men.

When in love, go to bed early and break up early. Statistically speaking, couples who have sex only after marriage tend to be more stable.

Someone once said that a certain woman never let men see her private areas in her entire life, and only let men "grope in the dark". Therefore, the more the man wanted to, the more he could not, and he was passionate every time. Turning on the lights and going to bed is such a simple thing. When a man walks on the bright avenue, it is easy for him to walk directly into someone else's back garden.

Second, women should not let men look at you with stereotypes.

Being moderately fashionable and sexy in dressing will give men a visual change. Women need to know how to learn, change, be tolerant, understand what can be changed and what can be constancy, and understand the art of emotion. There are constant changes in your life, concepts, attitude towards things, etc., which will make men feel that they must give you more attention, otherwise they will not be able to keep up with your changes. A woman should understand romance and consider health as beauty. Such a woman can easily make men see her brilliance. If a woman is less flat and has more layers, she will have more characteristics, more sensibility and more observability.

Third, don’t just be knowledgeable and considerate, but also have principles.

Being caring and thoughtful can make a man feel close to you, but if you only care about caring and thoughtfulness, or even show indiscriminate tolerance, it will become indulgence, which will make a man too confident and not know how to cherish you. Zhang Ailing's aunt said that she was good at both literature and martial arts. She could write letters and sew shoe soles. Modern women should also be good at both literature and martial arts. They should be gentle and charming in literature and intimidating in martial arts. Women intimidate men by relying on principles. Having an attitude on matters of principle will make men have a red line in their lower body and a bottom line in their ideas.

Fourth, let men know that you are not unwanted

In marriage, both men and women are prone to jealousy, especially when the third party has more advantages than you. When a man or a woman is jealous, it may have two effects: one is that they feel uneasy about you, which causes you physical and mental distress. A small number of narrow-minded men may commit domestic violence, which is a problem caused by defects in their personality and temperament. Second, for some other people, they are likely to change their perspective and realize that if something is too easy to lose, they have to hold on to it tightly. When applying this rule, it must be noted that jealousy is only a psychological effect and sometimes cannot violate the principle of trust. You are a principled person, but this is different from others liking you and pursuing you. If you mix these together, it will bring you negative effects.

Fifth, we need to have peace of mind in difficult times and memories of romantic moments

Your calmness in times of trouble may move a man once, and it is very likely that this time will last forever. Having memories of romantic moments is a measure of the level of your emotions. The relationship between husband and wife is often supported by the stability in times of trouble and elevated by the scale of romantic memories. As long as these two points are met, the relationship can be solid and beautiful. If a couple can love each other for a lifetime, these two things are often the foundation. I often say that simple women are more likely to be happy in life because they are more likely to remain calm in times of trouble, and they are also the easiest to make men relax physically and mentally and enjoy romantic moments.

Sixth, be a fun-loving little woman, don't always be upset and talk with a stern face.

Happiness can infect others. When you are happy, you become more charming. Women should learn to act coquettishly in moderation. Little women can help big men succeed. They should also learn to cry for men instead of crying for themselves. Only then can they leave a mark of love in men's hearts. Women should learn to create interest instead of looking down on men's childishness or romance.

A woman must learn to adapt to multiple roles in front of a man. First of all, you are a lover; at the same time, in front of a mother-loving man, you are a "mother"; in front of a younger man, you are a sister; in front of an older man, you are willing to be a younger sister. Without this kind of role change and diversity, your marriage cannot be interesting. In a world of two people, if you can be more adult in dealing with things and more childish in dealing with people, and if you can appreciate, need and rely on each other, then a lifetime of love is not a luxury. Only the most blessed people have such simple wisdom.