The three most surprising love tendencies of the spare tire girl

First of all, I would like to introduce to you three types of love tendencies that are likely to lead to the fate of being a "spare tire". Women who are prone to being a "spare tire" generally have the following characteristics:

1. Not good at organizing backpacks. The backpack is cluttered with unnecessary items such as receipts;

2. Being pursued by many people you don’t like, but not getting along well with the people you like;

3. Like to act alone. In an emergency, you can’t find a friend to help you;

4. Not clear about their preferences, often answering "whatever";

5. You can give anything for the person you love;

6. Don’t be fussy about details. Not caring about little things like heels falling off;

7. Always apologize first when arguing with someone;

8. If you don’t take the initiative to contact the other party, the other party will not contact you;

9. Always being comforted by psychologically fragile people and being told to “cheer up.”

Love tendency 1: confused love

If you meet points 1, 3, and 5 of the above characteristics, you have a tendency to fall in love with a "confused love". I have no idea what I like or want to try. Although they have a strong sense of autonomy,

If you don't make your feelings and hopes clear, you will often fall into the other person's pace. For someone like you, traveling alone to a lucky place is a very effective way to change your love life. All you need is to know what you want to do.

thing and put it into action. Travel alone, make your own plans, and realize the things you want to do one by one. In the process, you can understand yourself, regain confidence, and gain strength.

Love tendency 2: Over-giving love

If you meet the above characteristics 2, 5, 8, you have a tendency to "give too much love" in love. In love, you take the initiative and must date the person you like. In fact, deep in your heart is hidden

Uneasy and worried about not being accepted by others. Although such feelings can be controlled by oneself, the mood of liking changes with the other person. One does not know when the other person will change his or her mind, and there is always a deep sense of uneasiness in the heart. Have such a feeling

People who are emotionally inclined often hide great pain in their relationship with their parents. For such people, strengthening the awareness of "being loved" is a very effective way to change your love life. Look in the mirror every day and find three good qualities in yourself. so

You can start a relationship where you not only give love, but also feel full of love.

Love tendency three: competitive love

If you meet the above characteristics 3, 6, 9 points, you have the "competitive love"

Love tendency. I am not good at acting like a spoiled child in front of others, and I am not good at relying on others. Because I am too strong, I always give the other person the illusion that "she will be fine without me", which makes her feel lonely. And this will mislead people

They think that if they are dating you, they will not drag their feet after breaking up, which can easily make you fall into the fate of being a "spare tire". For someone like you, "tears" are the panacea for your love luck. Cry when you should cry; laugh when you should laugh

Smile every time; be moved by beautiful things... .As your emotions become richer, your love luck will also improve. In front of the person you like, show your vulnerable and hurt side, learn to act like a spoiled child and learn to rely on others

Others, this way your love will be happier.

People who love "confusedly" should go on a lucky trip alone; people who "love too much" should strengthen their awareness of "being loved"; people who love "competitively" should be good at using the weapon of "tears". Although there are many reasons for falling into the fate of being a "spare tire", I hope these three ways to change your luck can help you get rid of the "spare tire" and grow into the "true love" in love.