Sexuality Beyond Intercourse

The tongue has the advantages of being warm, moist, and flexible. It is a very important sexual organ. Not only can it be used in foreplay, but when it comes into direct contact with the sexual organs, the pleasure it brings is no less than real direct contact with the sexual organs. Oral sex refers to a variant form of sexual intercourse in which the mouth and penis come into contact. It was called jade tasting or flute blowing in ancient China. Oral sex is even more of a blessing for people with various sexual dysfunctions. In terms of physiological structure, oral sex is the behavior that is closest to or even exceeds sexual intercourse in some aspects.

Don't get too straight to the point when giving a woman a blowjob

If you want to give your woman oral sex, don't rush to her private parts. Attack step by step, create the atmosphere first, and don't start right away. You can start by gently massaging from your belly button to your pubic hair, and caressing the inner thighs. This will make the woman look forward to your next move and is very effective in stimulating her sexual desire. If you attack her private parts directly, she will not be immediately aroused, but will feel a little uncomfortable.

Find the most comfortable oral sex position

There are generally two most commonly used postures. One is that the woman lies on the bed with her legs bent outward; the man can lie prone or kneel between the woman's legs to stimulate the clitoris and labia. Another position is where the man lies on his back and the woman kneels between his legs or over his face. No matter which posture is adopted, both parties should make comfort and pleasure the first priority.

Basic movements of oral sex using tongue

Caress, fiddle, lick and attract; for example, lightly sweep the tip of the tongue across the labia minora, then lick the clitoris in a circular motion, fiddle up and down along the clitoris, and then suck on both sides of the clitoris. Remember to use different strengths and speeds, and decide whether to increase the force or speed up depending on her reaction. Do not bite your genitals with your teeth or blow air into your vagina. If you accidentally bite it, it can easily cause infection because there are a lot of bacteria in the mouth; don't blow air because if the bubbles enter the blood vessels, it can easily cause embolism. You can also add hand movements, such as caressing other parts of the body or stimulating the vagina.

Women should cooperate with men during oral sex

During oral sex, women cannot act like a puppet, but must cooperate with men in a timely manner and touch the man's body with their hands. For example, using both hands or placing one hand on the man's head to guide the man's strength and position and slowly move his hips. When the other person performs well, don't forget to give praise and don't be stingy with expressing your happy moans, which can increase the passion of both parties.

Although oral sex is very effective for sexual arousal, it is undeniable that because the sexual organs are very close to the excretory organs (the outlet of male semen is the urethra), many people have psychological barriers to oral sex and even refuse to have oral sex .

But in fact, oral sex is an instinctive behavior of human beings. All female animals will secrete pheromones near their genitals during estrus to attract males to approach and allow males to touch the female's reproductive organs with their mouths and have fun for a while before starting to mate. As long as men and women pay attention to hygiene during oral sex, it is a healthy sexual behavior and there is no need to have too much psychological pressure.