How to tell if someone is lying

Being cheated is a very unpleasant thing, so many people want to know how to tell whether the other person is lying. Let’s take a look at what psychologists teach.

It is well known that liars will try to avoid eye contact with others. Do you know how to use eyes to detect lies? When children lie, they feel guilty, so their faces turn red, their eyes flicker and become erratic, and they often look down.

It is not so easy to tell when adults are lying. Liars can stare into the other person's eyes, or even pretend to be extremely honest and stare at you intently, and tell lies without blushing or beating their hearts.

So what should we do? Experts have found that for most people, when people's brains enter a memory search state, that is, when recalling something real, their eyes will first turn up and then to the left. However, if a person tries to "construct" a picture, that is, to make up a lie, the movement of the eyeballs is exactly the opposite, first turning upwards and then to the right.

like If you want to find out whether a person is lying, don't ask him questions that do not require recollection or are very simple, such as "Are you telling the truth?" or "Have you had breakfast?" Because there is no need to recall, you will have no way of judging even if he is lying.

At this time, you can ask some detailed questions that require recollection to remember, such as "Who did you meet on the way to buy clothes that day and what did you say to them?"

If the other person looks into your eyes and answers immediately without thinking, it means he is telling a lie; if his eyes first look up and then turn to the left, it means he is recalling the truth; if his eyes first look up and then turn to the right, it means he is making up a lie and preparing to deceive you.