It is better for a woman to pretend to be frivolous than to pretend to be serious

If a woman is too outstanding, men dare not pursue her, but if a woman pretends to be serious, men will want to escape. The era of pretending to be serious is over. Acting and speaking in a rigid and formal manner will make people feel boring. "The bad girl from a famous family" Hong Huang once said: "There are two kinds of women, those who pretend to be serious and those who pretend to be indecent. Women who pretend to be serious are annoying, while women who pretend to be indecent are loved." This pointed out the different attitudes of men and women in love. Women think that being reserved can create a different kind of charm, but they don't know that men are straightforward animals. Beating around the bush will only confuse them and make them want to escape.

Who makes women hypocritical?

She clearly wanted to go on a date, but she half-hugged the pipa and covered her face; she clearly wanted to be intimate, but she was half-hearted. I don’t know since when, but women have learned to pretend to be serious, forcibly suppressing their inner desires. They have to show a different appearance in front of others. They dare not speak clearly, so they have to pretend to be noble and reserved, and show others a serious attitude.

There are many classic ways women pretend to be serious. For example, when someone tells a dirty joke, a serious woman will pretend not to understand and act innocent in order to maintain her serious attitude. She is late for a man to ask her out, and she has to make an excuse that she is very busy, as if she has a lot of things to do and it is rare for her to find time for a date. At the end of the date, she keeps paying attention to the time, showing that she is a good girl who goes home on time, which only makes the man feel disappointed.

In fact, women pretend to be serious because they are afraid that if they are not serious, they will be called cheap and fickle by men. If a woman is not serious, it will give people the illusion of being frivolous, as if her behavior is not proper and her actions are not thoughtful. So women want to love but dare not, want to be intimate but dare not, and can only maintain a serious appearance with trepidation. In order to give men a good impression, women are willing to suppress their nature and pretend to be serious.

When a woman is serious, the man will run away

If a woman is too outstanding, men dare not pursue her, but if a woman pretends to be serious, men will want to escape. Men can actually see through a woman's hypocrisy. No matter how cleverly she disguises herself, she cannot completely conceal the desires in her heart. Besides, how many people can really hide their true nature without any flaws? Just like when you lie there are always small loopholes that can be seen through, when a woman pretends to be serious it gives many men the opportunity to see through her. So in the eyes of men, the only word left is hypocrisy.

When faced with a man's enthusiastic invitation, if a woman insists on finding all kinds of excuses to refuse, but appears to want to agree but has to pretend to refuse, going back and forth several times will definitely make the man feel bored. Although playing hard to get is always effective in the love field and many men are willing to fall for it, everything should be done in moderation. If you always use a serious face to extinguish a man's enthusiasm, you will only scare him away in the end. Furthermore, a serious woman will make a man feel that he cannot take a joke, as if any random word he says will hurt her. There is nothing more boring than having to act in a businesslike manner at all times.

It is better to pretend to be frivolous than to pretend to be serious

In fact, women still have to have some bottom line, but they can express it in completely different ways. A truly smart woman knows clearly in her heart what can be done freely and what needs to be kept conservative, and is able to control herself freely. Acting too serious all the time will only keep men away.

It is not difficult to pretend to be serious. Just follow the Three Obediences and Four Virtues and do it in a disciplined manner. No one will say that you are not serious enough, but no one will think you are lovable or pitiful. The difficult part is to pretend to be frivolous, because the prerequisite for pretending to be frivolous is to know what is serious and to be able to do it at any time, just using different techniques in different occasions and in front of different people. Know how to flirt when it is time to flirt, know how to joke when it is time to joke, and know how to cater to people when it is time to make them feel warm. In general, it means that you understand romance and can aim at the right target.

When a woman pretends to be frivolous, she is actually playing a little trick, but the key is to do it skillfully so that men will not think she is too scheming or cunning, and at the same time, men will be attracted to her unknowingly. The era of pretending to be serious has passed. Acting and speaking in a rigid and proper manner will make people feel boring. In love, women should abandon the so-called "a woman's virtue lies in her lack of talent" and unnecessary reserve, and pretend to be informal appropriately.