What is the difference between men and women's lust

Introduction: The lust of men and women stems from physiological instincts, but there are many differences. Most of its manifestations come from the pressure of social opinion and the subtle influence of ancient Chinese feudal morality. Objectively speaking, the instinctive psychology that drives lust has nothing to do with morality. Only the results of the psychological drive caused by lust are related to morality.

Although both are lustful, there are big differences between men and women:

Different psychological pressure

Most men do not have any psychological burden due to their lust, and they can let go of it. Many men openly admit that they are lustful and even use it as a topic of joke. Every man has a theory of lust, and young men often talk about sexy topics together without any taboos. In their minds, men's lust is a natural instinct.

Most women are not so frank. They have to face more pressure, the constraints of the remnants of Chinese feudal morality, the pressure of public opinion... Therefore, even if they are lustful in their hearts, they will not show it. Most people associate women's lust with being "romantic".

Associating it with the word "debauchery" means that even if a woman has lustful thoughts, she will definitely hide them very deeply.

In fact, this does not look at the problem fairly and objectively. Lust is an attraction to the beauty of the opposite sex that comes from physiological instinct. This instinct has nothing to do with morality (but if instinct drives certain actions, then this is related to morality). Men and women are equally lustful, and it all stems from physiological instincts.

Different sexual tendencies

Although the lust of both men and women comes from instinct, the psychological behavior tendencies driven by instinct are different. Simply put, when a man sees a beautiful and sexy woman, it is easy for him to become lustful and have thoughts or desires to possess her. It is a posture of desire and possession, and some even have wild fantasies. They may take pursuit actions, but most of the time it is not out of liking, but a desire to conquer and possess beautiful women.

Women are different, when they see handsome and sexy men, they just think they are handsome or sexy, but most of them don’t have any further YY thoughts and remain “calm”. It is an attitude of appreciating and indulging in beauty. Some girls may become infatuated with such a man and dream of him pursuing them. The mind is in a passive state.

Different expressions of lust

Men's lust is very intuitive and they are not ashamed of it. Young men may even consider themselves bad guys and think it is cool. When men meet a beautiful woman, they will look at her lustfully. When they see the beautiful woman blushing and getting embarrassed, they will smile slyly and feel very happy about it. Men will whistle and wink at pretty women on the street, actively trying to attract their attention, and are very active and direct. Never hide anything.

Women behave very passively. When a woman is pleased with a strange man, even if she is deeply moved by his beauty, she will conceal her expression imperceptibly, and at most give him a casual glance. In fact, in China's feudal society, women have always been in a passive position, whether in the pursuit of men and women or in their lives. A woman's lust is also a passive psychological state.

But women also have their own ways of expressing themselves. Coquettishness, anger, foolishness and stupidity are common expressions of women. This kind of lustful expression is the awakening of spring love, and it is also a psychological state under physiological instinct. Even in modern society, which is relatively open-minded, most women still cannot face the issue of lust, and are in a very passive state when men and women have sex. They don't want others to associate themselves with words like "romantic", even though it is unfair.

Lust has different results

Men's lust is mostly forgiven or taken for granted by the public.

Women who are lustful are generally not tolerated by the public and will be attacked by conservative ideas. It can only be understood by a very small number of enlightened people.

To give a very simple example, when a man and a woman get married with a child, most people will not say what’s wrong with the man, but will mostly talk about what’s wrong with the woman.

Summary: The lust of men and women stems from physiological instincts, but there are many differences. Most of its manifestations come from the pressure of social opinion and the subtle influence of ancient Chinese feudal morality. Objectively speaking, the instinctive psychology that drives lust has nothing to do with morality. Only the results of the psychological drive caused by lust are related to morality.

For some people, it is an attitude of appreciation. Everyone has a love for beauty in beautiful things, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, it is intolerable to develop a criminal mentality due to lust. Both men and women have lustful psychology, but the social views they suffer because of this are unfair, so I urge everyone to look at it objectively, look at the problem squarely, and look at the issue of women's lust correctly.