5 tips to avoid wasting your wedding night

“The wedding night is worth a thousand pieces of gold.” The excitement and shyness of the wedding night are the joys of life that everyone must experience. However, if you have no sexual experience, or are too nervous or reckless, you may turn a happy thing into a bad thing.

1. Both spouses should avoid excessive drinking

Because of having sex after drinking, some men may experience loss of sexual desire, or even impotence and premature ejaculation, while others may have excessive sexual desire and fail to ejaculate for a long time. Both of these situations will lead to an unharmonious sex life and even cause pain to one party. If you are a heart patient, having sex while drunk can be life-threatening. However, you can drink a small amount of alcohol before sex to increase sexual interest and bring the sexual desire of both parties to its peak.

2. Clean your private parts thoroughly before sex

Before having sex, newlyweds should wash their vulva with warm water to prevent bacteria from infecting the reproductive organs and causing vaginitis, urethritis, pyelonephritis, etc. In fact, it is ideal to take a shower together before sex. It not only cleanses the body and keeps the reproductive organs clean, but also has an aphrodisiac and sexual effect.

3. If you encounter special circumstances, you must stop having sex

If you encounter special circumstances on your wedding night, such as the untimely arrival of a woman's period or sudden physical discomfort on one side or the other, you should stop having sex immediately. After all, health is the most important thing.

4. Men should be gentle in the bridal chamber and avoid being rough.

The entire sexual process should be based on the basic principle of comfort and harmony for both parties. Men should avoid acting rashly to avoid causing damage to the woman's vagina, infection, fear of sex, or even mental trauma, which may cause her to lose her sexual desire.

5. Coordinate the sexual differences between men and women

Generally speaking, men's sexual desire comes quickly and they reach orgasm early, while women's sexual desire comes slowly and they reach orgasm late.

Therefore, the man should control his emotions and delay ejaculation; even if he has nocturnal emission, he should not rush to end sex, but should comply with the other party's requirements, gradually master the rules, and achieve close cooperation. In this way, the wedding night will not be wasted.