Seven skills that men must know when making love

1. Make good use of your tongue

It's not just about oral skills, but has a deeper meaning: conversation. Oral skills are certainly a "gift" to women, but being willing to talk about your sex life is more important than that. You will benefit a lot from breaking down the barriers from time to time, asking her how she really feels, and understanding her perspective on what makes her feel happy. Also, don't forget to make sounds of pleasure during sex. Don't be shy. She needs to know and feel that you are truly happy.

2. Give her a kiss

A wonderful kiss is the highest level of communication. Forget the mechanical prescribed movements - pressing her lips, sliding the tip of your tongue in, then joining your tongues and taking a deep sip - a kiss that is truly unforgettable to her requires "feeling". Pay attention to her gentle breathing; when she takes a breath, capture her watery eyes with your affectionate eyes and let her know how much you cherish her.

3. Finding New Areas

Let her know that you are a big adventurer! Don't let tradition limit your fun - many people prohibit new attempts and new searches, not because it will cause physical pain, but because of psychological barriers. One of the most arousing things for both parties is to watch each other masturbate; not only is this not insulting at all, but it can also help both parties better understand their partner's most sensitive areas and improve their sex life.

4. Take your time

Ordinary third or fourth-level movies give people the illusion that sexual intercourse always comes quickly and intensely. But when facing your lover, the more important trick is to slowly feel the other person's rhythm and see clearly before taking the next step. If the other person is still enjoying the tactile pleasure brought by foreplay, why should you be so hasty? Occasionally adding some steps to the daily routine and extending the exploration time can make the pleasure of both parties last longer.

5. Focus

Some people keep thinking about other irrelevant things during sex; remember, your partner is a very sensitive animal and she will definitely be able to detect your distraction. If you are not careful, she may think you are thinking about another woman! However, some deviant sexual fantasies are exceptions. This can increase the endurance of your passion, so you might as well give it a try; but make sure your partner still remembers the woman in front of him, so as to avoid calling the wrong name in a hurry.

6. The revelation of wetness

A sexologist once gave countless lovers a revelation: just try to close your mouth, wipe off all the moisture with a tissue, then lightly swipe your fingers across your lips and pay attention to the feeling. Now wet your lips with your tongue again and then lightly sweep your fingers across them. What? Of course wet lips make you more "comfortable", right? Although men and women have many organs that can secrete natural lubricants, their secretion has a common drawback: they dry up quickly. You may try water-soluble lubricants (such as K-yjelly or Orthojelly), which will not only make her feel that you are very considerate, but also help both parties to have sex.

VII. Importance of Protection

Be sure to choose a reliable condom. While unobstructed sex is always ideal, the consequences can often be serious. Women may feel disrespected and hurt if their husbands refuse to wear condoms. After all, taking birth control pills always comes with some side effects. Unless you have plans to have a baby, that's a different matter.