It's not that simple for a woman to cry out in pain for the first time

Many people know that when a woman has sex for the first time, her private parts will be very painful. Many people think that it is because the woman's hymen is broken, which causes the woman to feel pain for the first time. Is this really the case?

The essence of the first night is that you need to go through pain to get happiness. Therefore, this kind of rendering is very contagious to both men and women. Yet this literary myth is accepted as fact. Then, during the first night, women will naturally feel nervous and “afraid of pain”. What's more, the first sexual experience itself is extremely stressful. Painful sexual intercourse itself is very related to psychological state. Psychological tension also prevents sexual arousal. So, let’s first look at what pain during sexual intercourse is.

Pain during sexual intercourse is a very common sexual problem in women. There are many reasons for this, such as bacterial infection, drug stimulation, object allergy, and even excessive vaginal cleaning. However, there are two common underlying factors that contribute to dyspareunia. That is vaginal dryness and vaginal tightness. The essence of sexual intercourse is physical friction. Our skin often becomes uncomfortable when it rubs without lubrication. If it is the epidermis of the esophagus, gastroscopy will be extremely uncomfortable. Even if you say. Many people have another mythical misunderstanding. They believe that as long as there is friction during sexual intercourse there will be pleasure. Little do they know that what they often get is only discomfort or even pain. After all, the vulva and vagina are very tender.

Vaginal dryness often leads directly to painful intercourse. Vaginal dryness means insufficient or no lubrication. This condition can occur when there is no sexual arousal or when stimulation is insufficient. At the same time, psychological tension can also lead to insufficient lubrication secretion. Coincidentally, these are the problems that often arise on the first night. Then, the hymen itself is a friction barrier. The problem was exacerbated. Furthermore, vaginal tension is also a serious problem. It may be severe enough to cause vaginismus. Vaginismus can make sexual intercourse impossible. Think about an injection; when we are forced to undergo a painful insertion, it in itself exaggerates the pain. So, the myth of suffering exacerbates the suffering.

So, first-night pain may indeed be a common occurrence. However, this pain probably includes multiple aspects. However, the popular idea in society attributes all of this to the rupture of the hymen. In fact, the hymen is rich in blood vessels but has only a few nerves. When it ruptures, it does not cause any noticeable pain. Some types of hymen rupture are almost painless. What's more, the pain will be reduced if it is well lubricated. Indeed, the vaginal walls are close together before first intercourse. Penile insertion may cause a burning sensation, or even stinging. However, the stinging pain of an ant bite is completely different from the legendary pain of childbirth. It is possible that the hymen may cause severe pain in certain situations, or even prevent sexual intercourse. However, generally speaking it does not constitute "fear of pain".

Therefore, pain during first night is often more of a common pain during sexual intercourse. Such pain is faced by many married women. The first night only adds "trauma" as a possible factor. In fact, the pain that this injury may cause is generally very small. At the same time, the actual pain during sexual intercourse also aggravates the pain. If your hymen is really large, inelastic and painful, then you can just "break" it for the first time and do not continue to rub the wound. Yes, a hymen with good elasticity may not rupture.