Can kind men really be trusted?

Many unmarried women still like men with kind nature. They believe that if a man has taste and a kind heart, he is the best candidate for a husband. Even if his conditions are not so good, as long as he is kind, they can still consider continuing the relationship. But can a kind man really be a good husband?

First, let’s analyze the characteristics of so-called “kind” men! Most kind men will not refuse other people’s requests and lack their own opinions. They are particularly concerned about the relationships between family and friends, and therefore are unwilling to be branded as "unkind and unjust". They would rather suffer losses themselves than lose the hearts of their relatives and friends. In addition, they are not efficient and often indecisive when faced with choices.

Maybe kind people are more suitable for dating, but they are definitely not suitable as husbands. A man who does not want to be seen as a "bad guy" by others will not be able to take care of his loved ones wholeheartedly, and will often push the heavy housework to his wife.

"How happy is the wife of a kind man!" Although most people think so, it is not true. The most suitable man to marry should be one who knows how to "put himself in other people's shoes", that is, a man who knows how to help others in principle but is "a little bad" in life. The best candidate for a husband is one who can clearly draw a clear line between others and himself, between family and outsiders, and who can decisively reject those who try to cross that line.

A good husband will definitely consider his wife's interests and be a little "selfish" for the one he loves. In society, although this kind of man is not well-known, his reputation is not too bad either. I have a friend with a rather eccentric personality. He loves his wife of 10 years as if she were a treasure. I have learned a lot from him.

He never cared about other people's opinions of him, but just devoted all his love to his wife. If you want to get married, don't marry a man who is too kind. In fact, men who are a little "bad" but truly love you are the best candidates for growing old together. Such men must be kept away from.

Many women suffer and waste their youth because of marrying the wrong men, but the most puzzling thing is that these women always fall in love with the same type of men, like to repeat the same mistakes and experience the same setbacks. If others advise them to make a careful choice, they think they are experts in love and don't care about other people's advice at all.

Past experience can only be useful when you truly recognize your mistakes. So, please don’t believe the love doctor’s advice to “follow your heart”. Completely irrational emotions will only hurt you. In order to awaken those women who are stubborn and deeply poisoned, and to guide those women who are easily deceived by bad men, I have specially compiled a list of men who must be stayed away from. Women, please open your eyes and see clearly whether the men around you are on the list.