Men's passion changes in an inverted U-shape with age

Men go through various stages, from the foolish and shy years of youth to the anxious and lonely old age. However, it seems that their entire lives are filled with a battle between releasing and controlling sexual desire. Do you understand?

Out of control period (before 18 years old)

Men's attention to sex begins after puberty. After hibernating for many years, that part of the body finally revived uncontrollably. The painful thing is that it may suddenly become erect at any time and in any place. This situation even happened in the summer when I was wearing thin clothes and was called by the teacher to the podium to recite the text in front of my classmates.

It seems to be getting harder and harder to control. Some boys shine in their school days and are even more successful when they enter society. One important reason for this is that they properly control their instincts. But this is easier said than done! As he grows up, he will often fantasize about being intimate with a member of the opposite sex, and the question of who she is and whether she is beautiful or not becomes secondary.

The hot period (18 to 28 years old)

The man's emotions began to slowly stabilize. Sex is not the only thing, there are also emotions and career, and some achievements may be made in these areas. If a man does not make progress at this stage, he will achieve nothing in his life. But he is not strong enough yet, and his desire to prove himself is very strong. He cares more about possession than suitability.

When pursuing a girl, he usually says sincerely: "I love you, really, for the rest of my life..." However, women often cannot bear their passion and the relationship ends in vain. This stage is also a period for men to gain a deeper understanding of women.

Charming period (29-38 years old)

After years of ups and downs, he has become very stable, his manners are elegant and decent, he is good at controlling his emotions, and more importantly, he has his own career. He was full of confidence and at the same time knew that sex was a matter between two people, so if he was rejected, he would not be as sad as before.

He could face everything with ease because women were no longer mysterious to him. A large part of his desire for sex has given way to mutual support with his partner. He can appreciate the charm of women and make women feel his charm; he will not embarrass women, nor will he embarrass himself. He can stir up waves in a woman's heart while being very calm.

The period of maintenance (39-55 years old)

A terrifying reality lies before us: sexual desire has weakened, although sexual fantasies still occur when seeing a pleasing woman. He was able to completely control his emotions, but this calmness made them worried. Whether consciously or unconsciously, he longs for a warm family life, a wife, children, and weekends at home.

As his major organs begin to age and his hair gradually becomes thinner, he often feels sorry for himself and fantasizes about regaining his lost youth. Therefore, once he meets a woman who admires him, he will easily do something inappropriate. But these relationships usually don’t last and often end in tragedy.

Nostalgia period (after 56 years old)

Although sex may have brought pain and harm to every man, once the need for it is completely lost, men will fear that their lives will end. Entering this stage, they have almost kept their distance from sex and prefer to invest their interests in other areas, such as playing chess, planting flowers, and of course, reminiscing about the past years.

According to a survey, if a couple stops having sex, 95% of the time it is the man who proposes it, although this is unfair to women. They feel that they have lost their teeth, their hair has shed, their sexual organs have begun to shrink, and they have completely lost their attractiveness. In fact, this is the result of physiology affecting psychology. If they can adjust themselves, they can also enjoy a satisfying sex life.