7 small actions to spread the spark of love

Men and women who fall in love all hope that the other party will say "I love you" to express their deep love. But a report published on the American "MSN Health" website pointed out that using body language to convey love can have a more magical effect. David Givens, an anthropologist and director of the Center for Nonverbal Expression Research in Spokane, Washington, found through observation that 60%-70% of communication in people's daily lives is expressed through body language. When expressing love, this proportion can even surge to 90%. Anthropologists and physiologists have discovered that the following body language "telegrams" can be effective in expressing love.

Shoulder Movement

The shoulder is one of the most expressive structures in the human body. It has a round shape, smooth skin and flexible mobility. It can perform movements such as shrug, lift and roll, and can express subtle changes in emotion. For example, when a person is frustrated, his shoulders will relax and sink; when he is in a good mood, his shoulders will become more flexible and powerful. Therefore, it is recommended that ladies wear a sleeveless top when dating, and men should pay more attention to shoulder muscle training, so that the shoulders can better express tenderness and love.

Imitate the other person

She picked up a cup of tea and he picked up a cup of tea; she took a sip and he took a sip too. Anthropologists call this synchronized behavior "homophilic behavior." In the animal world, imitating each other is an important means of pursuing mates. This phenomenon also applies to humans. Imitation is an instinctive and friendly behavior in the hope of getting close to others. Wearing couple outfits and complementing each other's every move will make you closer.

Stare at each other

Eye contact is a powerful emotional connection tool. Ordinary people will break eye contact after staring at each other for 3 seconds. When the gaze time is prolonged, it conveys admiration.

Head tilt

When talking to the opposite sex, observe the head carefully. If you have a friendly attitude, the other person will tilt his or her head to show that the relationship is harmonious. During courtship, this action also has a teasing meaning. The head close to the shoulders indicates harmony and identity. Tilting your head while on a date can make a couple's conversation seem more passionate and direct, allowing for easier communication.

Get closer

Jamie Comstock, a professor of communication at Butler University in Indiana, believes that shortening the distance between two people is a powerful way for the human body to convey love. When lovers meet, they can't help but move their bodies closer to each other. At this time, body language expresses love and attraction earlier than verbal language.

Blink quickly

The normal blinking speed of humans is 20 times per minute. When people are excited, the blinking speed will increase. Therefore, blinking is also a way to convey inner love.

Warm smile

Smiling can warm someone's mood, but not all smiles express love. When a couple smiles sincerely, the cheekbones muscles will contract highly, the corners of the mouth will turn upward, and crow's feet will appear at the corners of the eyes. Next time you see your loved one, you might as well mobilize your emotions from the inside and give a zygomatic smile to enhance your relationship.