My girlfriend actually let me "take the back door" and my true feelings

Many girls do not accept anal sex, which has little to do with psychological pressure. Rather, it is because anal sex causes malignant expansion of the anal sphincter, producing severe pain. Only after the pain is over can girls enjoy sex.

Getting a girl to accept anal sex is a process of getting her through this painful stage. But I think no girl, under normal circumstances, would be willing to endure this painful experience for a boy. So getting a girl to accept anal sex is actually a process of "strategy".

The first step of this strategy is to always mention your desire for anal sex and tell your girlfriend that anal sex can bring her sexual pleasure.

This creates the idea in the girl's mind that your greatest desire is anal sex, and that it might actually be pleasurable. Of course, sometimes your girlfriend may let you try it after your repeated requests and explanations, but once you start to expand her anus, she will definitely stop you firmly due to the severe pain. Don't rush, stop, just give her the idea that your greatest desire is anal sex.

The next step is to wait for opportunities and then create them, but this opportunity requires certain conditions, which not every boy can encounter. However, if you are an experienced lover, you will always have a chance.

Here are two methods, both of which are effective and can help you achieve your goal.

(1) If the girl loves you very much, you have a chance. When is a girl willing to sacrifice everything to fulfill your sexual fantasy? That's when she knows you're leaving her because you have a new girlfriend. At this time, if you put forward your request again and find an excuse to explain why you want to leave her, the girl will most likely agree to you. After your old girlfriend agrees to your request, you turn around and say to your new girlfriend that she has agreed to anal sex with me and I can't abandon her. At this time, your new girlfriend will definitely be jealous and say, "If she can do it, I can do it too. If I let you do that, will you be with me?" You say, "Of course, if you let me do that, why should I miss her?" As a result, you have anal sex with two people at once. Isn't it great? Of course, you don't have to consider whether you have cheated your girlfriend, because once your girlfriend overcomes the pain stage, she will really start to enjoy the sexual climax. After it's over, she won't think of it as a sacrifice just for you.

(2) The second method is to use the so-called SM games. This is very popular in the West. For older couples, playing some sexual games is the only way to keep the romance fresh. You may have seen it in movies. The simplest sex game is to use a very thick and soft rope to tie your girlfriend's limbs to the bed. When a girl has her limbs tied up, she feels extremely comfortable even during normal sexual intercourse, and it feels like she is in a state of life and death. If you play this kind of game regularly, you will have many opportunities to make your girlfriend accept anal sex, because by then it will be useless for her to cry or scream, because you are forcing her to go through the pain.

The ethical basis for using these methods is that girls will actually enjoy the orgasm brought by anal intercourse after the painful period of anal intercourse has passed. All you are doing is overcoming the pain, and your original intention is still for your girlfriend's sexual pleasure. So don't condemn yourself for your thoughts and actions, you are normal. After the girl goes through the pain the first few times, her anus's ability to expand will be greatly enhanced, and she will then consider anal sex a normal sexual activity.

But be careful during anal sex:

(1) You need something lubricating, such as shampoo.

(2) Do not bring anal secretions into the vagina, so vaginal intercourse is usually performed first. After the girlfriend reaches an orgasm, anal intercourse is performed and then it ends.