How does a wife's personality affect her husband's life expectancy?

According to Russian media reports, a group of American scientists recently came to an interesting conclusion after research: a husband has the ability to extend his wife's life, provided that he follows a simple and clear rule, which is to always admit his mistakes.

Scientists conducted a careful study of a large number of middle-aged families. The results confirmed that in order to prolong the life of their partner, men need to apologize immediately when their wives get angry.

Medical staff believe that if this is not done, women will experience increased arterial blood pressure due to nervous tension, which may eventually cause abnormalities in the cardiovascular system and lead to fatal heart disease.

Seeing this, some netizens may ask, what do women need to do to prolong the life of their significant other? There is indeed relevant research. According to Dr. Wang Yanling, deputy director of the Psychological Counseling Department of the China-Japan Friendship Hospital, men who are afraid of their wives live longer for the following three reasons:

1. Fearing one’s wife, eating and sleeping more regularly

"Dear husband, please come back for dinner after get off work," married men should often hear such words. A henpecked man usually doesn’t dare to say that he has social engagements outside under the sweet “coercion” of his wife, but goes home obediently to eat the meal prepared by his “wife”. Compared with meals in restaurants, meals cooked at home are cleaner and contain less oil and salt.

In addition, a henpecked man would not dare to be picky or make comments about the meals carefully prepared by his lovely wife. "Eat some fruit and more vegetables." Men who are afraid of their wives are more willing to accept their wives' healthy eating suggestions. In this way, men are forced to eat a balanced diet and ensure a healthy diet. In addition, there are bad eating habits such as smoking and drinking that are repeatedly banned. A henpecked man is more likely to quit under the sweet words and discipline of his wife.

In addition, men who are afraid of their wives have no chance and dare not go home too late or stay out all night, and always go home early after work. In this way, men who are afraid of their wives unintentionally establish a healthy schedule of going to bed early and getting up early. It avoids going out for socializing, entertaining and staying up late for a long time, thus avoiding physical problems such as endocrine disorders, neurasthenia, headaches, gastrointestinal problems, etc.

2. Men who are afraid of their wives exercise more

Exercise is an important factor in maintaining vitality and good health. Maintaining moderate exercise every day can increase cardiopulmonary function, improve the heart and blood circulation system, consume calories, and speed up metabolism. However, under the fast-paced and high-intensity work pressure of modern society, not everyone can spare a few hours every day to stretch their muscles and do some exercise.

"Honey, please go shopping with me," "Honey, please go wash the dishes." The wife "enslaves" her husband in this coquettish way. Some men think that accompanying their wives shopping and helping with housework are unmanly. However, a henpecked man will accept his wife's invitation to go shopping and request to share housework out of respect and love for his wife. This actually gives us the opportunity to communicate and exercise. In addition, Wang Yanling believes that men doing housework can also relieve and relax their psychological stress.

3. Men who fear their wives are more psychologically healthy

Some men think that being a man means shouldering all the burdens of the family. But in fact, men should not always bear the pressure silently. A man who is afraid of his wife will communicate with her on everything, compromise, and give in, and can often create a good family atmosphere.

Wang Yanling believes that in today's society, men still play more socialized roles. During the economic crisis, many people were overwhelmed and committed suicide to escape. When the family as a whole is facing a crisis, men know that they are not fighting alone, and their psychological pressure will be greatly reduced.

Some men worry that if they give in at home, they will be seen as showing weakness. I am worried that my wife will become more and more superior to me. Wang Yanling smiled and said: "Based on my decades of clinical experience, the efforts and rewards of both men and women in marriage are two-way and mutual. In the family, sometimes the husband takes the lead and sometimes the wife takes the lead, which is also conducive to maintaining a good family relationship and further maintaining men's health."