3 secrets of the first night of men and women

The first sexual experience in life is also called "first night". In traditional concepts, it is mysterious and beautiful. It is not only a symbol of loyal love, but also the beginning of a happy marriage. However, as society becomes more and more open, people's longing for "first night" is becoming less and less. Recently, a survey on "Chinese Youth's First Night" conducted by a certain website showed that compared with more than a decade ago, young people's emphasis on first night has changed a lot, and 60% of them gave up their "first time" during college. How to spend your first night correctly? The Public Health Network gives suggestions and advice.

age

6.2 years earlier in 20 years

Nearly 100,000 people participated in this survey, and the age groups were divided into those born in the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s. The survey shows that the average age of first night for those born in the 1970s is 22.4 years old, while for those born in the 1980s it is 21.3 years old, and for those born in the 1990s it is 18.2 years old.

This result is basically consistent with the actual situation understood by experts and professors of the Department of Sexual Medicine of Tsinghua University Yuquan Hospital. He told reporters that more than ten years ago, he wanted to go to schools to conduct surveys on sexual concepts and knowledge, but the schools were very resistant. However, now many schools welcome such topics.

The survey also showed that among the respondents, an average of 62.1% had their first night during college, and this proportion was as high as 72% for those born after 1990. In this regard, Yang Xiong, director of the Institute of Youth Studies of the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, analyzed that this phenomenon is first of all caused by changes in the overall social environment. Economic development has made the overall moral values ​​of society more relaxed, and things like cohabitation and one-night stands are no longer difficult to talk about. Secondly, the development of the Internet has given rise to products with strong sexual connotations, which has increased the openness of young people's sexual concepts. Finally, the general physical precocity of adolescents is also a reason for the early sexual behavior.

Expert advice: The younger the age of first sexual intercourse, the greater the risk of cervical cancer in women. Regardless of gender, young people should cherish their "first time". This is to be responsible to themselves and to others.

Place

Hotel "room booking" is more popular

The survey also counted the location of the first night. Most people born in the 1970s chose to have sex at home, while those born in the 1980s and 1990s preferred to "book a room" in a hotel, reaching 47.8% and 51.2% respectively. At the same time, the wild has also become a place for those born in the 1990s to seek excitement, with 18.9% liking "outdoor sex" and 10% choosing to have sex in the classroom.

Experts point out that this change stems from the different consumption concepts of young people. In the eyes of those born in the 1970s, going to a hotel was "too luxurious". The policy at that time seemed to be relatively strict, and documents such as a marriage certificate were required to stay in a hotel. Those born in the 1980s and 1990s have better economic conditions and more open-minded ideas. Some of them think that "renting a room" is fashionable and "outdoor sex" is exciting.

Expert advice: The first night is not a game. Pay attention to safety and hygiene during your first sexual intercourse, otherwise it will cause harm to your body and mind, and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Safety

80% of people know about contraception

The survey shows that most respondents are aware of sexual safety, and 83% have taken contraceptive measures.

However, experts believe that some measures are not safe. For example, 25% and 11% of people in the survey used the protective measures of "extracorporeal ejaculation" and "safe period" respectively, and nearly 30% took emergency oral contraceptives. Although these methods can help prevent unwanted pregnancies, they cannot prevent dangerous diseases such as sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. Using condoms can provide preventive protection for both aspects, but unfortunately, less than 50% of the respondents use them. This data coincides with a survey in Guangzhou: 59.2% of young people believe that the effective contraceptive measure is "withdrawal ejaculation."

Yang Dazhong, chief physician of the Department of Sexual Medicine at the Yuquan Hospital affiliated to Tsinghua University, pointed out that ejaculation outside the body is actually the least effective contraceptive method. In addition, men who frequently ejaculate outside the body are prone to functional anejaculation, causing premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Although emergency oral contraceptives are relatively effective, taking them in excessive doses or frequently can cause menstrual disorders and affect your health.

Expert advice: Teenagers must use scientific contraception, and learning to use condoms correctly is a manifestation of responsibility to both parties.