These doubts of men can be perfectly answered by their girlfriends

Most men say that they can never guess what women are thinking. This is what they call "don't try to guess what women are thinking." Especially in the matter of sex, women are more shy to talk about it, so men have no idea what women are thinking every day. For this reason, a German sexology research institute specially invited 200 pairs of men and women, asked the men to raise the sexual issues they are most concerned about, and then invited the women to answer truthfully!

1. Men: Why do women sometimes fake orgasms?

Woman: Yes, we do that sometimes, and when we were young, we even did it a lot.

Because we believe that only women who are easily sexually excited are more attractive to men and are the partners that men like. Therefore, each of us hopes that we can look very aroused or appear so.

Which woman is willing to admit that they are indifferent and wooden in bed? In addition, we know that men are so passionate and so fragile, and we really can't bear to see them so devoted but can't find the necessary return. That would be so disappointing for them.

Of course, sometimes we just want to get away and want it to be over faster because we don’t really want to have sex at that moment, we just want to satisfy our partner’s needs. For many women, orgasm is not necessarily an inevitable part of a night of fun, but unfortunately, men don't think so.

2. Men: How do women view non-traditional sexual practices?

Woman: Oh, you mean changing up your sexual positions or trying new sexual behaviors!

Yes, men are always not satisfied with the accustomed sexual positions and caressing methods. They always want to try new things to pursue greater stimulation and pleasure. In fact, women today also have the need to pursue freshness and excitement. When we believe that this sexual position is healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make us happier, we will not reject men's good intentions. The key is that we must determine in advance that this new sexual method must be harmless and acceptable, which means that it must not cause any harm to our physical and mental health.

Do men want to try new sexual positions and caressing methods? Then they should respect the wishes of women and obtain their consent, instead of imposing their will on others, making them feel used, insulted or even raped!

3. Men: Will women get jealous when men masturbate?

Woman: It depends on the relationship between the two people. If the relationship is normal or very good, the woman will not be jealous if the man enjoys himself by masturbating.

We know that masturbation is also a normal sexual behavior, even in the days after marriage. Secondly, after all, there is no other woman to take away his love. Sometimes when we see the look on a man’s face at that moment, we even feel particularly thrilled and excited.

However, although we understand that men have their own ways of entertaining themselves and that their sexual behavior has nothing to do with the relationship between the two people, if our relationship is not very good and we are always not getting along, then seeing or knowing that a man leaves himself aside to masturbate will make us jealous, and even feel inferior and sad.

4. Man: Do women like having sex under the lights?

Woman: When my lover and I just go to bed and chat in bed, I don’t advocate turning off the lights immediately, because seeing the smile on my lover’s face under the light will make me more happy and excited.

But the next step, without a doubt, is to turn off the lights. In the dark, women have a wider sexual space, and I can better think of many pleasant and exciting things, which will make me more excited. At the same time, when my eyes can no longer see, everything will be given to the body's senses, allowing me to focus more.

Another reason is that at this time, perhaps my partner's and my faces would become ugly because of excitement, and perhaps we would even make some ecstatic moans. In the dark, these will be concealed, so we won't feel embarrassed or shy and can enjoy ourselves more. If there was just a dim and blurry light at this time, I would also feel very comfortable.