7 tips to find your second spring after marriage

A new relationship is always full of passion and excitement, but after two people are together for a long time, they will inevitably feel bored. A long-term marriage cannot rely solely on family affection. Rekindling the passion of an old couple can help maintain a happy marriage. Here are seven tips to rekindle the love in your marriage.

1. Keep appointments

Dating is not just for the young, and even if you have been married for many years, don't stop dating. Set aside time each month to date your loved one as you did in the past, such as going to a movie, having dinner, or taking a walk in the park. Making your date the beginning of a romantic evening will increase your expectations for marriage.

2. Wear more sexy underwear

Every man wants to have a lovely, sexy wife at home. Throw away your boring old pajamas and put on some smooth silky pajamas with sexy lingerie underneath. This will not only make him crazy, but more importantly, it will make you feel better.

3. Do something special for him

Do little special things for your partner from time to time, such as bringing him/her his/her favorite snacks on the way home, buying him/her tickets to a favorite sports game, or something else that he/she wouldn't normally buy for you. Such small gestures can bring surprise and touch.

4. Cooking in the name of love

A delicious family meal can go a long way toward strengthening your bond. You can discuss recipes together, buy ingredients, and cook together. Food will make you happy and appreciate each other more.

5. Add some spice to sex

The same old sex positions can make people feel monotonous and boring. Try some different sex positions and methods, use some sex toys during sex, take a pleasant short trip, read an adult sex book together, etc. These are all good choices.

6. Express that you need him

It is very important for a man to feel missed and needed. Find what you admire in your lover and praise him or her appropriately.

7. Reduce complaints and nagging

No one wants to be around a negative person who complains all the time. Maintaining a positive attitude is the secret to happiness. From now on, say less nagging words and express more positive thoughts every day.