Men have thousands of misunderstandings about this "toy"

Anyone can use sex toys. Surveys show that people who have sex use sex toys more than those who do not, and couples who use sex toys usually have a higher quality of sex and better emotional intimacy.

1. People with an unhappy sex life use sex toys

Fact: Anyone can use sex toys. Surveys show that people who have sex use sex toys more than those who do not, and couples who use sex toys usually have a higher quality of sex and better emotional intimacy. About 20-30% of people will use at least one disposable toy in their lifetime. Sex toys are not a life-saving straw or a panacea, they are just a supplement to sexual games.

2. Sex toys are addictive

Truth: Addiction means some kind of harm. But using sex toys won't hurt you (as long as they are used correctly). While some people may develop a dependence on sex toys due to habitual use, you don't need to force yourself to quit, and anyone can easily return to masturbation or sexual activity with a partner without the use of sex toys.

3. If a woman uses sex toys, she doesn’t need a man anymore

Fact: Sex toys are not replacements for people. A sex toy won't make you breakfast, hug you or tell you how much he loves you. Many men are afraid of women using sex toys because they think their importance to women lies mainly in their "big things", which makes men feel insecure.

4. Men only use sex toys when they can’t get real sex

The truth: When people think of men and sex toys, they picture men who buy masturbation tools and masturbate in their basement while watching porn. But the truth about men and sex toys is that millions of men use them, whether they are in a relationship or single. The best way for a man to become a better lover is to understand his own sexual responses. Whether or not you use sex toys, masturbation is a key way to learn how to control your body. Using sex toys does not mean a man is a "loser." He's actually pretty smart and would probably be better in bed. Because he is interested in sex and pays more attention to skills.

5. Sex toys make sex unnatural

Truth: We hear a lot of misconceptions about sex, one of which is that natural sex means only physical contact. If I use pencil and paper, does that make my drawings less realistic and natural? Of course not. It doesn’t make sex unnatural if we use tools or toys to make it more fun, sex toys are not powered by batteries, but by our imagination.