Eight misunderstandings men have about women's privacy

A woman's body is like the Goldbach conjecture, constantly arousing men's desire to crack it. Where are her sensitive points, what are her reactions during orgasm... Every man thinks he "knows this well", but in fact, many people have misunderstandings. Here are some common misunderstandings about the female body. We asked experts from home and abroad for their answers.

Myth 1: The clitoris is the mysterious switch for sexual desire

Some men always try to stimulate the female clitoris from the beginning, thinking that the clitoris is like a "switch" and that pressing it a few times can quickly ignite the female's desire.

Fact: Professor Ma Xiaonian from the Department of Sexual Medicine at Tsinghua University Yuquan Hospital said that the clitoris is rich in blood vessels and nerve endings, and proper stimulation can indeed cause sexual excitement in women. However, direct stimulation from men without any preparation will make women "feel pain, numbness, and discomfort." Therefore, be more patient, start with gentle kisses and caresses, and then touch the clitoris after she is in the mood to achieve the best results.

Myth 2: The G-spot doesn’t actually exist

The mysterious G-spot is a headache for men. Some men cannot find this key spot on women, so they think it does not exist.

Fact: Although not every woman has a G-spot, it does exist. Yi Ping, a member of the Chinese Society of Sexology and a sexology consultant, pointed out that the G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, 2-3 cm away from the vaginal opening, and is as big as half a fingernail. It is composed of erectile tissue similar to the male penis. How to find this sensitive area? The woman lies flat on the bed and uses one finger of her own (or her sexual partner's) to stimulate the front wall of the vagina, pressing hard every 10 seconds. The prominent position that can give women pleasure is the G-spot.

Myth 3: Direct nipple stimulation can excite women

Many men like to stimulate nipples directly with their fingers or teeth, believing that if nipples become erect, women will have sexual desire.

Fact: Ma Xiaonian said that breasts play a very important role in sex, and improper stimulation will be counterproductive. Because nipples are very sensitive, rubbing them directly with fingers may cause discomfort. Therefore, most women like to have their entire breasts caressed first, and then gradually stimulate their nipples. A warm tongue is the best "tool" to stimulate nipples.

Myth 4: Some women cannot experience orgasm because sex time is too short

Men often worry that it is difficult to satisfy them because of the short time.

Fact: Emmaus Iannini, a famous sexologist at the University of L'Aquila in Italy, pointed out that women cannot reach orgasm every time they have sex. At the same time, about 10% of women have never experienced orgasm. Whether a woman can reach orgasm has little to do with the duration of a man's erection. Instead, foreplay, emotions and words make it easier for her to reach orgasm.

Myth 5: There must be some universal “tricks” to turn women on

Fact: Yi Ping said that you can learn some sex tips, but there is no universal trick because every woman is different. Instead of spending a lot of time learning techniques, it is better to express your love with sincerity and tenderness.

Myth 6: Smell can turn her on

Some men take special baths and spray perfume to make themselves more attractive.

Fact: Guo Jun, director of the Department of Andrology at Xiyuan Hospital of the China Academy of Chinese Medical Sciences, pointed out that the sense of smell is very important in sex and body odor is a sexual stimulant. For women, the smell of men's sweat is most likely to arouse their sexual desire, but the strong smell of perfume cannot stimulate sexual desire at all.

Myth 7: Men need to learn to tell if a woman is faking an orgasm

Fact: Men don't need to be distracted by this. A German study found that 48% of women have faked orgasms. Yi Ping believes that occasionally pretending to have an orgasm will make the partner satisfied. Men should not care too much about it, nor expose it. The best result is to strengthen communication and practice reaching orgasm together.