Why do men indulge in extramarital affairs?

Looking for youth

People usually think that only women care about their age. They are keen to cover up the traces of time through makeup, clothing, beauty and body shaping. In fact, men also care about whether they are still young, energetic and attractive, which is also a competitive capital for men. It’s just that their desire for eternal youth is much more secretive than that of women. Why do most men look for young and beautiful ladies as their lovers? They want to prove that they are still attractive and should not be underestimated.

Find identity

Usually only rich men can afford to find lovers. In the eyes of some people, lovers have become a symbol of identity and status, just like villas, luxury cars, and brand-name clothing. Beautiful lovers seem to have become living advertisements for men of status. An ordinary employee of a joint venture does not have a high income, but since he got a lover, he found that even his manager seemed to look at him differently. Men are much more socialized than women and are more influenced by the environment and popular ideas than women.

Find the mood

Many men emphasize that the reason they fall in love with their lover is because she is gentler, more beautiful, and more caring than their first wife, and they want to find a better woman. What they look for in their lovers is a temperament, style, and manner that is different from that of their wives. They like their partners to be a little mysterious and seductive. Since they have lived together with their wives for a long time, they are already quite familiar with each other and there is no beauty of distance. Lovers just meet their psychological needs.

Sexual satisfaction

This is a man’s biggest “gain” from an extramarital affair. Most extramarital affairs involve sexual transactions. Men with normal sex lives regard extramarital affairs as a novelty; men who are dissatisfied with their sex lives use extramarital affairs to divert and vent their sexual desires.

Find love

Some men view their lovers as better marriage partners, but they make up a relatively small proportion. Behind extramarital affairs of the kind that involve a life-and-death relationship, there are often complicated emotional backgrounds, and the rate of divorces resulting from such affairs is also quite high.