Six of the most embarrassing things couples do when making love

When you go to bed with your husband, you put on a very sexy piece of underwear that he particularly likes, and seem to show him intentionally or unintentionally... This may be saying: "Honey, please follow me!"

1. Have a fantasy object

Most of the women who answered the question admitted that if it was a sexual intimacy that was neither happy nor successful, they would usually wonder: Why did it end like this? Otherwise, they might indulge in their own sexual fantasies. If they think of other men at this time, it is often the man they like or the male celebrity. Sometimes this imagination makes them very excited, and sometimes nothing happens.

2. Don’t like fierceness

For women, what kind of man is the sexiest and most attractive? Mighty and brave, or rough and tough? Sorry, that is old news from the medieval knight era, or it is just a story in martial arts and gunfight movies. Women in today's society prefer men who are gentle, kind, proactive, successful in their careers and responsible, because such men can give them more sense of security, dependence and trust. Most women also admit that such men are truly sexy, charming and fascinating.

3. Don’t like lighting

Most women believe that in the dark they can feel a wider sexual space, can better think about many pleasant and exciting things, and thus be more excited. The eyes can't see - women are used to having sex with their eyes closed. Everything will be left to the body's senses, allowing them to focus more on sex. Another important reason is that most women are worried that their faces will become ugly due to excitement, and in the dark, these will be concealed.

4. Don’t reject variety

Men are always not satisfied with the habitual sexual positions and caressing methods, and always want to try new things in order to pursue greater stimulation and pleasure. In fact, modern women are generally no longer averse to this in their cognition and actions, because they also have the need to pursue new and exciting things.

But one premise must be adhered to, that is, they believe that this sexual posture and caressing method is healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make themselves happier, and will never cause any harm to their physical and mental health. Therefore, if men want to try new sexual positions and caressing methods, the most important thing is to respect the wishes of women and obtain their consent!

5. Condoms don’t matter

Men often don't like condoms, as they think it reduces pleasure. But for women, they don't have any special feelings.

However, sometimes women will wonder: Did the condom slip off? This is entirely for the purpose of contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. Of course, there would be no pleasure in having sex if there was a risk of an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease.

6. Passivity is an illusion

Although people's concepts have become much more open, in people's minds, a good woman is one who is gracious, dignified and gentle, especially one who is calm, steady and restrained in sexual life. This makes most women unwilling to be so ostentatious and open about their sexuality.

In fact, whether women are sexually active or not is different from whether they are sexually positive and proactive. Women are by no means passive when it comes to sex. However, women can only express it in a more obscure and implicit way.

For example, she carefully prepares his favorite dinner for him, and then is particularly attentive and intimate to him after dinner; she washes up early and prepares for bed at night, and asks her husband to come to bed as soon as possible; she puts on a very sexy underwear that he particularly likes before going to bed with her husband, and seems to show him intentionally or unintentionally... These may all be saying: "Dear, please follow me!" In addition, what else do you expect a reserved woman to do?