6 things that make a man a real man

1. Have you ensured that your wife and children do not have to worry about food and clothing?

Many men seem to be working and busy every day, but have you ever thought: Is your busyness ineffective? Do you even have to be too frugal and calculate the food and clothing of your wife and children? Although men have different abilities, if their abilities are really limited, of course there is no need to be too demanding. However, there are not many men with poor abilities. Most of them are capable but do not work hard, have no ambition, and indulge in games or gambling.

2. Whether the wife's emotional and spiritual needs have been neglected

Material is just a basic requirement. As a married man, in addition to providing relatively worry-free material conditions for his wife and children, have you been too devoted to your career or social activities and neglected your wife's spiritual needs? For example, do you accompany your wife shopping, take a walk with her, remember her birthday or the couple's wedding anniversary? Will you rudely destroy your wife's romantic needs?

3. Have you not talked or communicated with your wife for too long?

Without communication, there will be no harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and there will definitely be no warm and happy marriage. Women are mostly willing to chat and talk, while men tend to be silent. Have you not had a good chat or a conversation with your wife for a long time? Have you not communicated about the big and small things in life for a long time? Or even just one person has the final say? Do you only care about socializing and come home late every day, leaving your wife alone?

4. Have you hurt your wife unintentionally through your words and actions?

Most men are careless and often think they are right. They inadvertently say things they shouldn't say or do things they shouldn't do without realizing it, and their wives don't point it out out of love. But the harm has already existed, which makes it even more necessary for men to actively reflect on themselves regularly and frequently. Have you hurt your wife's feelings by an unintentional word or action? Have you wronged your wife by your chauvinistic words and deeds?

5. Whether you neglect to educate your children and respect your parents

In a marriage, besides the husband and wife, there are also children to look after and parents to look after. A qualified man cannot just be busy with his career and do his job well while neglecting his children's education. As the saying goes, it is the father's fault if the son is not educated. There are even more men who forget to honor their parents because they are too busy. They may have the intention but never put it into action. When their parents are no longer around, it is too late to regret. Have you ever seriously reflected on how long you have not taken care of your child's education? Have you left your child's education to your wife or even your parents? Have you not visited your parents for a long time or even called them?

6. Are you worthy of your wife’s love and loyal to your marriage?

Marriage is a marriage between two people. You live your life for yourself, not for others to see. Therefore, being true to your own heart is the most important thing. On the surface, they are very harmonious and never even quarrel. Others think they are a model couple. But in fact, many model couples are just an illusion. Being loyal to a marriage does not rely on concealment and deception, nor does it mean that one can feel at ease as long as the wife is unaware of his ambiguous or even cheating behavior outside. When a man is out there, does he follow the trend and flirt with other women? Does he flirt with women online and play the confidant game? Is he really worthy of his wife's trust and loyal to the marriage?