How to tell if your husband is cheating?

Happy lives are all the same, but unhappy families each have their own misfortunes. Some are caused by husbands cheating, which brings a lot of pain to female friends. If you want to determine whether your husband is cheating on you, you can determine it from these aspects, such as his temper becoming bad, his expenses suddenly increasing, his absent-mindedness, too many social engagements, and he often works overtime and comes home late.

1. Your temper becomes bad

After a husband has an affair, his temper usually becomes bad. He can get impatient and lose his temper over the slightest thing, which is inexplicable. Your cheating husband starts to criticize your taste in clothing, saying that you have a bad image and doesn’t like you buying him low-quality clothes; when you tell him about the hard work at work, he always says, “I know you are very busy, but I can’t always listen to your complaints. You bring pressure to me and the children.” Especially his nagging wife made him feel that his family was unbearable.

2. Expenses suddenly increase

Men can definitely cheat if they say so, but where are the details to expose a man's cheating? First of all, we need to look for it from the daily expenses. A person who usually spends money in a very disciplined manner may suddenly spend a lot. In order to please his beloved, it is necessary to have a candlelight dinner, send roses, and drink coffee. This can reflect a man's gentlemanly demeanor and luxury. These are tricks that young girls like very much, and men are willing to pay to keep the beauty, so they have to save money desperately.

3. Absent-mindedness

Absent-minded men often become very sensitive as a conditioned reflex when they hear the phone ringing, thinking that their affair has been discovered. When answering the phone, he would refuse to do so in front of his wife. When his wife asked him what was the matter, he would deny it in a rude manner - what could be wrong with me? Are you doubting me? If this situation occurs, it must have happened, and it is very certain.

4. Too many social engagements

Having many social engagements is actually the same as frequently working overtime. He uses social engagements to deal with his wife, saying that there are many things outside that need to be taken care of, but in fact he is just accompanying his lover. And smart men will develop extramarital affairs openly under the guise of socializing. When the wife begins to feel disgusted with his constant socializing outside every night, the man has more reasons to defend himself than anyone else. They think that as long as they say something discouraging, their wife will immediately be speechless with her rebuttal, and in the end will tell the man to drink less, eat more vegetables, and take care of his health.

5. Often work overtime and come home late

People who usually go home after work suddenly say they have to work overtime, which makes people suspicious. Men who have had an affair will naturally use such an excuse to be with their lover and experience the ecstasy and beauty of love. However, as the number of overtime hours increases, his wife will gradually become suspicious. Once the husband acts aggrieved and says it is for the family, he will naturally be forgiven by his wife. This situation gives the man more time to support his lover.