What do women care about most when they are intimate?

There is nothing wrong with intimacy between men and women. It is not only for reproduction, but also brings people physical and psychological pleasure and relaxation. So, do men understand what women care about most when they are intimate? At what times can the effect of intimacy be doubled? Let's take a look below.

1. Perfunctory foreplay

Women often regard gentle and considerate foreplay as a manifestation of love. Delicate and thoughtful caresses are not only an appreciation of her body, but also an expression of true feelings. Although many people understand this truth, there are still men who go straight to the point on their own. This will only make women feel disgusted, let alone perfect sex.

Expert opinion: Women's physiological characteristics determine that they need a longer period of time to be excited. The man's caressing before sexual intercourse, including kissing, hugging, touching, and even massage, can help the woman get excited. However, irresponsible foreplay is extremely disadvantageous.

2. Not hygienic and not wearing condoms

Maybe it's because of laziness, or maybe they like to have impromptu sex, but many men refuse to take a shower before having sex. What makes women even more headache is that some men even refuse to wear condoms because they don’t like to “scratch the itch through the shoe”.

However, unsafe sex brings women all kinds of troubles, including gynecological diseases, miscarriage, etc. Therefore, what women can't tolerate the most are men who go against them on bathing and condom issues.

Expert opinion: Due to their physiological characteristics, women are more susceptible to reproductive tract infections. This is also the reason why women are more demanding about cleanliness.

3. Fall asleep after sex

If you fall asleep due to exhaustion after making love, there is no woman who would not think: "He just uses me as a tool to satisfy his sexual desires, he doesn't love me at all." Dr. Judy, a well-known American sex therapist, also pointed out that during sex, the pituitary gland in the brain will secrete posterior lobe aphrodisiac, which makes people feel warm and want to hug, and women are more likely to produce this hormone than men. So, after having sex, women will be more eager to hug and caress.

Expert opinion: Women become sexually excited more slowly than men, and also take longer to cool down after orgasm. Men can continue to give them some stimulation to help them cool down slowly.

4. Inappropriate sexual requests

Regardless of whether she is exhausted or unwell, a man who only knows how to make sexual demands will only make a woman feel disgusted and feel that you don't care about her at all and only care about your own desires. Making love is supposed to be a consensual thing. Once it is forced, it will become boring.

Expert opinion: Men should be reminded that inappropriate sexual requests will disgust women and cause them to subconsciously resist sex.