The reason why men love face

It is a fact that men love to save face. They talk about gender equality, but often times men's face plays tricks and often does not make things equal. This is the basic situation in today's society, and it has a lot to do with traditional patriarchal ideas.

Knowing how important face is to men, and knowing that they will often use face as an excuse, women should not easily touch the sensitive areas of their face. So as to avoid offending others without knowing it. In fact, there are many ways in which a woman may offend a man, and she no longer has the luxury of being able to speak without restraint, so she must be careful not to say anything she wants. For example, "Who is better, me or her?" is a sentence that almost every woman in love will say over and over again. She will always keep weighing the pros and cons between herself and her boyfriend's ex. When you are unsure, you can't help but ask for the truth. In fact, you just want to gain confidence.

Whenever, in the male world, love is put against their self-esteem, most of the time, they will give way to love. When a woman is abandoned by love, the first thing she will cry is the loss of dependence. Most men are heartbroken because their self-esteem is hurt.

At this time, if a woman insists on competing with him by asking "whether he loves me or not", it will seem strange and ridiculous in their eyes. They will wonder: What does my face have to do with her? Because when they are wholeheartedly focusing on maintaining their face, they will not take care of anything else. Making women sad is completely unintentional, and they will say: It was not intentional!

Any man would feel embarrassed if his lover asked this question, because it would force him to recall his ex-girlfriend. In any case, it is an unpleasant thing to reminisce.

Saying that his ex-girlfriend was outstanding seemed to make him feel proud. After all, he once had the favor of an outstanding girl, which made him a little complacent. But the result was that he lost such an outstanding woman, which meant that his failure in front of an outstanding girl seemed to mean that he was not good enough. This is obviously a very self-esteem-damaging thing.

But if I say that my ex is not good enough, it would seem that I am incompetent or not careful enough, so why would I betroth myself to someone so casually. Moreover, under normal circumstances, this will lead to sour sarcasm from the current lover: Why do you like her? This also makes him lose face. In other words, no matter what the facts are, he is unwilling to admit it. What do you want him to say? So don't ask.

"I'll treat you to dinner!" always causes an argument and ends up you saying something nonsense. Because in most cases, if the man still has any manners, he will pay the bill.

Women often think that this is a way of showing understanding for men who are short of money and expressing their great intentions. In fact, not only do they find it difficult to appreciate this kindness, they may even feel very unbearable. They will think that women are alluding to their financial difficulties and implying that his wallet is not fat enough. This kind of insight into himself by his lover will greatly threaten the generous image he tries hard to establish. Which man doesn't want to show generosity in front of a woman? Even if he has to puff up his face, he still has to pretend to be a fat man.

Maybe between lovers, it doesn’t matter who pays the bill, but for men, “money” is always a sensitive issue. It always reminds them whether they are strong enough, whether they are competitive, whether they can keep a relaxed smile... It is best for women not to show their consideration and care by paying the bill. It’s like someone hits his face and makes it swollen, and you grab an ice cube and apply it down his face. Isn't this just asking for trouble?

"Can you grow some more muscle?" This is obviously a request related to body shape. Regarding body shape, it may not be too much to ask a thin boy to gain some weight, or a fat boy to lose a few pounds, because this problem can be easily solved with some effort. Then a relatively easy-to-solve problem will not hurt his self-confidence more strongly. But if a girl gets excited when she sees Stallone and can't help but ask him to make a few lumps of flesh on his chest or arms, otherwise something will happen... then it is tantamount to posing a huge problem to the other party.

Who doesn't know that muscles are both strong and good-looking? How easy is it to build muscles? It cannot be accomplished in one day. Otherwise, wouldn't there be Stallone everywhere? If he had the willpower, he would have already built up a lot of muscles, and would he still be waiting for you to stimulate him?

In the emotional world of men and women, love often lowers its status because of face. For the sake of face, men can put their rationality aside. When they save face and put their emotions and even reason aside, the girls themselves are the ones who feel hurt. In the male world, if love is put against their self-esteem, most of the time, love will be defeated miserably.

It is good to love face and maintain one's self-esteem, but sometimes, when we let go of our self-esteem, we are relieved and the problem is solved peacefully. Isn't this better? Why do we have to hold on to it? Don't you feel tired?