Some bad sexual psychology of women after 30 years old

Why do women who are good wives and mothers develop some bad psychology after reaching a certain age?

The specific performance is as follows:

1. Comparing with each other and being particularly vain

Although making his woman live a worry-free life is the ultimate goal of every man and a huge driving force for a man's lifelong struggle, men have always been disgusted by women's unprincipled comparisons and competition with each other, especially those blind comparisons that are not based on their own economic conditions. That kind of over-inflated vanity will make men live in a state of mental tension all day long, and make men feel that the pressure of living with such a wife is really too great.

2. Hope that the husband will become successful and the wife will be honored and respected

The vast majority of women hope to marry a "second-generation rich" or "second-generation official". However, such an opportunity is not available to everyone. Therefore, more women place their hopes on cultivating a "first-generation rich" or "first-generation official". For this reason, hoping that their husbands will become successful has become the main job of women after marriage. They even add a lot of mental pressure to their husbands, in the hope that one day they will become rich and powerful.

3. Lack of consideration and only care about self-perception

Girls who grow up in a single-child family are used to being served by others, and it is always difficult to ask them to be considerate to their husbands after marriage. Most young women only care about their own feelings and arrange their small family life after marriage based on their own likes and dislikes. Maybe she herself does not know that even though it is her unintentional mistake, she will still neglect the man's parents, family members, relatives and friends, which will eventually lead to strong dissatisfaction and emotional backlash from her husband.

4. Suspicious and restricting the husband’s freedom

Girls who have a strong desire for control also have the problem of being suspicious. Although women's desire for control is innate, it is more obvious in modern marriages, especially in modern society, where there are many temptations of flowers and plants outside the home, and wives are hard to guard against and control. If the wife is suspicious due to lack of self-confidence, and is worried that her husband will pick wild flowers on the roadside, she will simply restrict her husband's personal freedom, making her husband tired and herself even more tired.

5. Arrogant and domineering, disregarding the husband’s dignity

Although many girls have become someone else's wife, they still bring their natal family's arrogant and domineering lifestyle into their own family and even into their husband's family. They talk to themselves in everything and decide their husband's social circle or personal affairs according to their own preferences or judgments. Therefore, control and counter-control have become the most friction-causing issues between couples. In fact, smart women can learn more sophisticated skills to control their husbands, allowing them to move freely within their sight.

6. Spending money without restraint and having poor financial management skills

Women like to go shopping, appreciate beautiful things, and own expensive items. Therefore, women's natural greed can easily cause them to suffer from symptoms of shopaholics. However, young people have limited income after all, and after paying off the mortgage every month, they will always be short of money. If they spend money without a plan, they will end up spending more than they earn and artificially increase the pressure of life. The problem is that this has become a common problem for many girls born after 1985.

7. Disclosing privacy between best friends

Some newly married women do not attach importance to privacy issues in marriage. They will talk about their marital affairs with their girlfriends without any worries. They will even judge and comment on each other and use marital affairs as a topic to laugh at their girlfriends. In fact, family or marital matters should never be shared with others. If a person can turn even her own privacy into a public topic, such a smart stupid woman is really a bit stupid.